Er no, not for me. In fact mix sex with any form of pain, aggression, and I'm out of there. Sex for me should be for all parties involved: fun, yes, passionate, yes, fulfilling, yes, sensual, yes, mind blowing, yes, earth shattering, yes, toe curling, yes, uninhibited, yes, pleasurable, yes, ecstatic, yes, attentive, yes, energetic, yes, seductive, yes, rewarding, yes, and much much more but never ever with the aim of causing the other person pain, or hurt, or to make them uncomfortable with the situation.
It's not that I think that BDSM, humiliation is wrong, it's just not for me. I get turned on by pleasure and not pain and I definitely don't get turned on by by someone wanting to cause me pain. Some people do, and good luck to them, just don't come and see me if you get turned on by someone else suffering.
You're probably asking, where did this come from, why write about this?
On Saturday I had a client who I had seen before but just the once and I won't be seeing again. Why? well, firstly he asked for bareback, always a no no, and secondly he asked for anal ( on many occasions) Not on the menu, thirdly he ran over time not by ten minutes, but by 30 minutes. Which I wouldn't normally mind if we're just getting carried away and time flies, but this guy was clearly just stretching things out for as long as he could. My clients I'm sure would agree I'm anything but a clock watcher. It could be because I was uncomfortable and wasn't enjoying myself and that he just took it as red that he could go over and I wouldn't mind.
However the nail in the coffin was the aggression, I'm as passionate as they come and everyone gets carried away from time to time. I like my hair being pulled and my tits being sucked, and a bit of spanking is good too. BUT (I know I shouldn't start a sentence with a BUT) I left with my head hurting from where he had grabbed my hair and pulled and twisted it so hard that I couldn't move. Luckily he was only light and I pushed him off easily and told him to behave but the damage had been done. He also grabbed my breasts so hard that in the morning I had bruises. It wasn't passion, it was him knowingly hurting me and I hated that, I could see in his facial expression this wasn't him getting carried away but he actually looked to see my face in pain. I love giving head, I think there is no bigger compliment than a man coming in my mouth but I can't deep throat. I don't advertise it because I can't do it and neither do I want to. It makes me gag, and I don't want to vomit over someone, that's a real passion killer. I will take the cock as deep as I can, I enjoy giving head but he kept pushing his cock to the back of my throat so that I gagged time and time again, in conjunction with pulling my hair so hard I couldn't get away is just a huge no no. I'm no porn star and I don't get paid to be a piece of meat that you can do what you want with. At no point did I feel endandgered but I ertainly didn't have fun. Got to be honest, I left pretty upset and I'm looking forward to seeing some of my other clients again to show me that there are some true gentlemen out there who know how to have fun but also respect me as I do them.
Needless to say he has been informed that I won't be seeing him again. I only see clients who are on the same sexual wavelength as me. My Saturday night client just needs to find the woman who gets turned on from being hurt, humiliated and in pain, and that is NOT ME. It was stupid of me really, my gut instinct told me that he wasn't my sort of client and that I shouldn't have gone but I ignored it and thought I was just being silly. Lesson learned: listen to my gut instinct!!
Luckily for me I have no such doubts about my other clients. On the Friday before I met a most charming man, who I thoroughly enjoyed my time with and would love to see again. I like to think we had a mutually mind blowing time and I can't wait for him to book me again. Not only was the sex great but I could have chatted happily for a very long time.
On the Sunday I had a further booking. Before you say anything, yes I only do two clients a week, I did Friday and Saturday last week and a Sunday this week but because of Saturday have taken the rest of the week off. I was a bit anxious after Saturday night about meeting a new client but I shouldn't have worried, he was a true gentleman, the company and cuppa and conversation was great, followed by a gentle but satisfying intimate experience. Again this gentleman fits into the category of clients I'd like to see again.
So with all that said I have a quiet weekend ahead for a change, (unless of course one of my lovely clients gets in touch) and I just hope that all the men out there that use escorts make sure they think about whether the chosen person is into the same things as you are. If you want anal, go and book someone who advertises anal on the menu, not someone who clearly states: NO ANAL. If you want BDSM, humiliation, then go and find an escort that advertises those services. If you want a GFE don't book a dominatrix.
If you want a woman who clearly enjoys not just sex, but sex with you and loves giving oral, receiving oral, french kissing, all forms of foreplay and is as enthusiastic as they come, can have a conversation, doesn't embarass easily, is non judgmental, enjoys your company and thinks you are a great person to spend time with, then book me. I must admit I feel truly blessed that I have met such lovely gentlemen in my job and that they choose to spend their time and money with me. They are all special to me in their own way. I won't let one person stop me from enjoying my time with the others, that said I'd like to get back to my respectful gentlemen again.
Have fun and be safe x x
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