Evening all, I'm sure you haven' missed my blogs, but thought it was probably about time I added another. I've been manically busy with my full time job and my normal life and my escort life. I've had to turn away many of you because of my one client per day and only about 2 clients per week rule, so apologies, you just have to make sure you book in sooner as I love meeting new people. I am now getting into the swing of things being an independent escort and must say a thank you to Elite courtesans who were very helpful, I think if I was a man who wanted to use an agency escort I'd definitely go there as they seem very genuine and have the best interests of their clients and girls at heart.
Anyhow, I love that my clients vary so much and that as an independent I can pick and choose. I am really looking forward to my two clients this week as they are both mature gentlemen whom I haven't yet met but from the sound of the communication we have had so far I think we will have a very stimulating time.
Some of my clients have a checklist that they want, which is absolutely fair enough, they are paying for my company and it is my job to make sure that the time spent together is as satisfying as possible so if they do have a wish list it is great to know about it before hand. Thus why my "one client a day" rule helps, I can prepare myself for that one client, and one client only. Putting on my underwear, styling my hair, completing my make up, all knowing that I am making up a package that will make my client happy. I really enjoy the preparation time as well. These clients tend to be more about the physical aspect, which is fine by me but I do always worry I might not meet their expectations. My last client did comment that I looked so much better in person than in the photo's, which I don't think is true, but it was a lovely compliment nether the less.
On the other hand I also love the really laid back client who doesn't have any requests other than obviously being the person in the photos. I will always be smart and sexy, underwear will always be matching but it gives it a little bit of excitement not knowing what floats their boat. They tend to be looking for more about the connection, the girlfriend experience which I absolutely love.
One client wanted to check my build, honesty is my policy and I replied very truthfully that if someone is looking for a schoolgirl type, that is not me, but if you are looking for a woman with a generous bum and curves, hourglass figure but not a bbw, then I am for you. I am not, and never will be skinny, neither will I be slim, I am shapely, womanly and more like a girlfriend than a glamour model. I have a few bumpy bits, and I'm not just talking about my 34DD breasts, but I am fit, healthy with a love for sex, life, men, passion and food and I'm happy with my body and a big believer that no matter what size or shape you are you should be happy and proud of your body! (women love men with a few more pounds than they would ideally like, perhaps call it carrying a bit of condition, makes us feel a lot less insecure). I do believe as well though that if your body is putting your health at risk by being too thin or too fat then perhaps it is time to have a look at your life and see whether it isn't time to address some of those internal issues that are showing themselves externally. (Bit deep for an escorts blog, but I do have a degree in psychology and am pasionate about body image, and the connection that our body and appearance has on our mental state and vice versa)
One client asked me what would I do if I met a client who really didn't float my boat. Honestly, I think 99% of men have really good qualities that if not obvious to the naked eye at first, can quickly be identified over a glass of wine and a conversation. However on the off chance I do meet a client, who lets say is unclean, or really not my type at all, then I would be polite, explain that it won't work between us and that it would be unfair of me to take any payment for time as I wouldn't be able to provide the level of service he was looking for.
I would also expect that if I met with a client and he didn't feel that he was well matched with me (never happened, but lets just say), then I would much prefer him to be honest with me at the start, reimburse my travel costs and we'd agree to go our own ways. I truly believe that the escort business, (or at least the escort business I am in) is about meeting with clients with whom you can connect and who you are able to make them feel much better after the meeting than before, and you shouldn't go ahead with the meeting if you don't think you will be able to fufil this basic criteria. Again, for the clients I think you have the right to cancel your meeting if you don't think that the person is going to be able to achieve this criteria for you. This is not to say I endorse time wasters, trust me I truly don't, but the profession of being an escort is that we are naturally able at putting people at ease quickly and being able to connect closely and comfortably with a wide variety of clients so lets be honest, if we are any good at our job it should be very rare that any client says I don't think you are for me.
So with that in mind, I'm hoping for some really good meets this week, remember if you want me to book in advance, and to be proud of your body and your sexuality.
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