Violence and sex? Not for me

Er no, not for me. In fact mix sex with any form of pain, aggression, and I'm out of there. Sex for me should be for all parties involved: fun, yes, passionate, yes, fulfilling, yes, sensual, yes, mind blowing, yes, earth shattering, yes, toe curling, yes, uninhibited, yes, pleasurable, yes, ecstatic, yes, attentive, yes, energetic, yes, seductive, yes, rewarding, yes, and much much more but never ever with the aim of causing the other person pain, or hurt, or to make them uncomfortable with the situation.

It's not that I think that BDSM, humiliation is wrong, it's just not for me. I get turned on by pleasure and not pain and I definitely don't get turned on by by someone wanting to cause me pain. Some people do, and good luck to them, just don't come and see me if you get turned on by someone else suffering.

You're probably asking, where did this come from, why write about this?

On Saturday I had a client who I had seen before but just the once and I won't be seeing again. Why? well, firstly he asked for bareback, always a no no, and secondly he asked for anal ( on many occasions) Not on the menu, thirdly he ran over time not by ten minutes, but by 30 minutes. Which I wouldn't normally mind if we're just getting carried away and time flies, but this guy was clearly just stretching things out for as long as he could. My clients I'm sure would agree I'm anything but a clock watcher. It could be because I was uncomfortable and wasn't enjoying myself and that he just took it as red that he could go over and I wouldn't mind.

However the nail in the coffin was the aggression, I'm as passionate as they come and everyone gets carried away from time to time. I like my hair being pulled and my tits being sucked, and a bit of spanking is good too. BUT (I know I shouldn't start a sentence with a BUT) I left with my head hurting from where he had grabbed my hair and pulled and twisted it so hard that I couldn't move. Luckily he was only light and I pushed him off easily and told him to behave but the damage had been done. He also grabbed my breasts so hard that in the morning I had bruises. It wasn't passion, it was him knowingly hurting me and I hated that, I could see in his facial expression this wasn't him getting carried away but he actually looked to see my face in pain. I love giving head, I think there is no bigger compliment than a man coming in my mouth but I can't deep throat. I don't advertise it because I can't do it and neither do I want to. It makes me gag, and I don't want to vomit over someone, that's a real passion killer. I will take the cock as deep as I can, I enjoy giving head but he kept pushing his cock to the back of my throat so that I gagged time and time again, in conjunction with pulling my hair so hard I couldn't get away is just a huge no no. I'm no porn star and I don't get paid to be a piece of meat that you can do what you want with. At no point did I feel endandgered but I ertainly didn't have fun. Got to be honest, I left pretty upset and I'm looking forward to seeing some of my other clients again to show me that there are some true gentlemen out there who know how to have fun but also respect me as I do them.

Needless to say he has been informed that I won't be seeing him again. I only see clients who are on the same sexual wavelength as me. My Saturday night client just needs to find the woman who gets turned on from being hurt, humiliated and in pain, and that is NOT ME. It was stupid of me really, my gut instinct told me that he wasn't my sort of client and that I shouldn't have gone but I ignored it and thought I was just being silly. Lesson learned: listen to my gut instinct!!


Luckily for me I have no such doubts about my other clients. On the Friday before I met a most charming man, who I thoroughly enjoyed my time with and would love to see again. I like to think we had a mutually mind blowing time and I can't wait for him to book me again. Not only was the sex great but I could have chatted happily for a very long time.

On the Sunday I had a further booking.  Before you say anything,  yes I only do two clients a week, I did Friday and Saturday last week and a Sunday this week but because of Saturday have taken the rest of the week off. I was a bit anxious after Saturday night about meeting a new client but I shouldn't have worried, he was a true gentleman, the company and cuppa and conversation was great, followed by a gentle but satisfying intimate experience. Again this gentleman fits into the category of clients I'd like to see again.

So with all that said I have a quiet weekend ahead for a change, (unless of course one of my lovely clients gets in touch) and I just hope that all the men out there that use escorts make sure they think about whether the chosen person is into the same things as you are. If you want anal, go and book someone who advertises anal on the menu, not someone who clearly states: NO ANAL. If you want BDSM, humiliation, then go and find an escort that advertises those services. If you want a GFE don't book a dominatrix.

If you want a woman who clearly enjoys not just sex, but sex with you and loves giving oral, receiving oral, french kissing, all forms of foreplay and is as enthusiastic as they come, can have a conversation, doesn't embarass easily, is non judgmental, enjoys your company and thinks you are a great person to spend time with, then book me. I must admit I feel truly blessed that I have met such lovely gentlemen in my job and that they choose to spend their time and money with me. They are all special to me in their own way. I won't let one person stop me from enjoying my time with the others, that said I'd like to get back to my respectful gentlemen again.

Have fun and be safe x x

Specialities, and what makes a prat a prat

Been a manically busy and tiring week, I have been working my big booty off (not in my escort job, and not that big, but not that small either), in my daytime profession. Business has suddenly got very busy and there just aren't enough hours in the day to do everything. I've had no escort clients this week which is a good thing as I didn't have time for them anyway and now I'm extremely horny just in time for my weekend meetings. I am hugely looking forward to tomorrows meeting with a new client who seems like a gem. I've worked extra late tonight so that I can go and get my nails done tomorrow before my meeting, and make sure I am all beauitfully presented for him. A morning of pampering before an afternoon of action. Life doesn't get much more perfect than that.

I've had interest from some really lovely clients recently and I'm looking forward to meeting them, so much so they make me smile just by confirming the booking, even if it is a few weeks away. not sure if you read my blog but just thought you should know I was really miserable today until I got an email from you which put a huge smile on my face and since then have felt much better, so thank you, and I'll treasure the image of face masks and hair nets forever.

Clients that happily give me their name and address, are happy to have a normal conversation over the phone or by email and make a booking are my favourites.

Specialities
Some clients ask me what my speciality is?

My genuine enjoyment of the meeting and of the company. I don't think many women enjoy the physical aspect as much as I do, and there's no faking it. My speciality is that I'm pleased to be with you and I'm very good at making us both feel great. I only see clients that are on the same wavelength as me. I orgasm easily, I squirt (if desired and with the right work),  I enjoy giving oral pleasure and therefore I'm pretty good at it, I enjoy giving pleasure in general, I enjoy receiving. I enjoy being able to make someone feel special. I'm easy going and don't embarass easily, I don't judge and will make you feel comfortable very quickly.  I think if my clients could speak they would say that it was my openness, honesty and enthusiasm which they liked. I'm definitely a real woman, curvy in the right places and just oozing sensuality, aimed soley at my clients. I'm affectionate and loving, and don't clock watch. I like to think I'm a bit of a head turner when dressed up, so if you are looking for a real woman to make an impact on your arm and in your bed then I'm for you.
I'll happily go along with the majority of requests as long as it stays within my rules and it makes you happy. It is easier if I get the requests before I arrive so that I can prepare if needed. I'm happy to french kiss, as I think this is an important part in being intimate.


My downsides: I can't deep throat, sorry, I've tried and it's not a pretty site and I find it a bit odd that a man gets off on a woman gagging on his cock. But hey, if it comes naturally to a woman (which to a few it does) then kudos to them, I'm really quite jealous of your talents, let me know who you are so I can recommend you to my clients who want to experience it.
I'm no pornstar, yes, I enjoy myself and can give you the best come to bed eyes, I like to look into your face as I suck on your cock and I'm noisy when having fun but none of it is for the sake of it, it's what comes naturally. I don't do anal. Anal involves a bit too much trust and size does matter so I keep it simple and just say NO.

Apologies for being too busy to answer my phone

Got to make apologies now, I've had a lot of phone calls during this week which unfortunately I just haven't been able to answer as I've had my hands full with my full time job. If this is you then please leave a message, or send me a text and I will call you/ text you back as soon as it is possible. If I call you, I will let it ring once and then put it down so that you know I can take calls but wouldn't want to leave it ringing just incase someone picks it up who shouldn't.

PRATS
For every one of my clients who I am very fond of and enjoy their company very much there are ten prats, who thankfully I have never had the misfortune in meeting. Why? I've been lucky, I'm super picky when it comes to who I see, I have only a few clients and I don't need the money desperately enough to see someone I wasn't 100% sure with and finally because most of the time you can sense them a mile away. What makes a prat a prat?

• Calling at 3am, infact after 11pm is just plain rude and inconsiderate
• Calling from a with held number
• Texting "r u available now?" at 2am
• Starting a text with "hey Baby"
• Asking about bareback: NO NO NO
• Asking if I do 30 minute meetings: NO NO NO
• Asking if I do 1 hour meetings: NO NO NO
• Asking if I will change my rates: Yes, of course honey, they just doubled for you x
• Suggesting a booking but never confirming
• Living in fantasy land, i.e I'm just getting back from a house buying trip to blah blah blah, and I've just bought the new mercedes maclaren, would you like to go for a spin with me?

I have to put my phone on silent every night as some idiots think it is reasonable to call several times at 3am and 4am. Not that I answer the phone, I don't, I wake up enough to put their number into my block list so that I never have to deal with them again. For anyone that knows anything about this industry they will know that reputable women will NEVER aswer an unknown/witheld number. If you trust me enough to get intimate with me then you should trust me enough to provide a telephone number, and if you don't then I'm just not interested. Note to self: need to get myself a blackberry for this business so I can get a proper app which I can block unknown numbers and callers who I don't wish to work with.

Weekend
So a fun day tomorrow where I get to spend some much needed time on me and on someone else, can't wait, I've got a week of frustration built up so Mr Y you better watch out as I'm in the mood for some fun. See you tomorrow, which is now today, so I better go to bed and get my beauty sleep for you. x x

Saturday evening I have a lovely returning client who I had an absolutely fantastic drink and some high quality private time with and can't wait to see him again. So all in all a great weekend planned, followed by probably cooking a Sunday dinner for friends and some much needed R&R.

I am currently free next weekend, 27th and 28th April, plus other days in the week, so if you would like some company please get in touch via email: xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com, or phone 07507738323 and speak to me, Taylor, or go through adultwork and contact me via them "Taylor Personal"

Have fun, be safe and think about all the mischief we could get up to. x x

Squirting

Firstly, forgot to mention in my last post regarding handbag contents two essentials, a bottle of water (thirsty work) and a hair band (so I can tie my hair up when giving head so I can look in your eyes.

Today I caught a train to meet my client in my killer stilehettos, short skirt, diamante and seamed black stockings, and a very revealing top that showed my red basque; the lovely Grandma's almost had heart attacks but I quite enjoyed the attention.

Ok, so on to the topic of this blog, it's a bit naughtier than my standard blog but I've just had a great session with a client, and don't feel like returning to my normal work so instead I'll write about what I've been doing today. Yes, you guessed it, squirting.

So this for those of you who don't know, squirting is female ejaculation, it's not wee, it doesn't have the wee smell or colour, so it is clear and can sometimes have a vanilla essence to it. It happens when a woman is really turned on and doesn't have inhibitions. Today, I met a new client for a first time and he liked to play with me and toys. I orgasm easily anyway but he was a magic with a toy and I just couldn't help myself. Luckily he liked squirting, (it's not for everyone, some men who have never experienced can freak out thinking the woman has wee'd on the bed, this isn't the case). In the end after countless orgasms and squirts I had to say enough was enough because I was just soooo sensitive down there, plus my rabbit is a pretty strong toy that doesn't seem to have a gentle mode. It was nice to lie in my own damp patch for a change : )

There are some tips as to how to make a woman squirt, I find it easier after half a glass of wine, and if I've had a lot to drink, tea, coffee, water, it doesn't matter what. Obviously it helps to know what you are doing but if you don't have a toy (which personally works for me) and you want to do it manually the best way to describe the action is to pretend that you are trying to find the end of one of those toilet rolls in public toilets, you know the big round ones when you can never find the end and you have to reach in and spin it all the way round just to try and find the beginning. So you do the toilet roll "come hither" motion, imagine you are trying to spin that toilet roll around quickly and just keep going, you should be able to feel like a little nubin swelling inside her pussy and as she gets more turned on the more it will swell. I have found that the longer the build up, the greater the amount of liquid, but to get her to squirt she has to basically let go, it will feel like she needs to wee, but equally as if she is about to orgasm, (which she is), at this point she should push down and clench and voila, you have made her gush. Be careful, her bits may be extremely sensitive for a few minutes after you have done this so go gently. Hopefully if you have your face down there then you will either have a mouthful or drowned, or perhaps you prefer to watch the action from a safe distance, either way be prepared for an egg cup full or a pint. If you want to make her squirt then it may be worth putting down some towels first as it can get really wet, on the other hand once it dries it doesn't leave a smell so it's not a big issue.

So whether you do this with me or experiment on someone else have fun trying and enjoy yourselves.

Enjoy the weekend, and remember if you want me, to call  07507738323, or email xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com, look at my feedback on adultwork, my profile is taylor personal and remember to use condoms, book ahead, and don't ask for 30 minute or one hour appointments, if you want a quickie, there are much cheaper options out there and you're not my type of client.

Chocolate and rabbits and handbag contents

Easter is every woman's dream. Mixing two of my most favourite things in the world: chocolate and rabbits, and on this occasion I'm not talking about the cute and cuddly kind. The rabbit I talk about has two ears but has a distinctive buzz to it and is usually made out of plastic/ rubber type material. In fact to celebrate Easter I splashed out and bought myself a new silicone rabbit, it is neon pink and puts a smile on my face. (WOW) Ideally used by myself or as part of a private session. (It is part of my handbag contents when making out calls).

Oooh, what else is part of my handbag for outcalls, honestly, you want to know???

1) An assortment of condoms, from natural, to flavoured, including chocolate, blueberry and banana. I always carry lots as you never know how many you'll get through and I can't think of anything worse than the fun being limited due to stocks running out

2) Lubrication jelly: always useful (no this does not mean that I do A-Levels!)

3) A couple of scarves, handy for any gentlemen that like tie and tease, I do it to you, not the other way around. Perhaps also used as a blindfold if you wish.

4) A pair of handcuffs, again, I can use on you and not vice versa.

5) As mentioned previously my beloved rabbit

6) My toothbrush and toothpaste, I'm a lady that values oral hygiene and nothing tastes better than a minty mouth, other than a freshly showered clean cock of course

7) My work phone, used for making a call to my security friend to let her know I have arrived and met with my companion, all is fine and when she should expect to get the next call. I then call again once I have left and I'm returning home.

8) Makeup, for post session touch ups (apologies to one of my clients, I didn't apply my smear proof lipstick and it could have been very messy, lesson learned, only my blow job proof lipstick from now on.

9) Baby oil, great for massages and getting messy, although have to be careful and make sure it is not in contact with the beloved condom.

10) Baby wipes, an essential product for everyone

11) A spare change of underwear and stockings, ladies with ladders are not attractive, and just in case you want to make a mess of my underwear I like to have something to go home in that is clean. 

and anything else my client may have requested.

variety is the spice of life

Evening all, I'm sure you haven' missed my blogs, but thought it was probably about time I added another. I've been manically busy with my full time job and my normal life and my escort life. I've had to turn away many of you because of my one client per day and only about 2 clients per week rule, so apologies, you just have to make sure you book in sooner as I love meeting new people. I am now getting into the swing of things being an independent escort and must say a thank you to Elite courtesans who were very helpful, I think if I was a man who wanted to use an agency escort I'd definitely go there as they seem very genuine and have the best interests of their clients and girls at heart.

Anyhow, I love that my clients vary so much and that as an independent I can pick and choose. I am really looking forward to my two clients this week as they are both mature gentlemen whom I haven't yet met but from the sound of the communication we have had so far I think we will have a very stimulating time.

Some of my clients have a checklist that they want, which is absolutely fair enough, they are paying for my company and it is my job to make sure that the time spent together is as satisfying as possible so if they do have a wish list it is great to know about it before hand. Thus why my "one client a day" rule helps, I can prepare myself for that one client, and one client only. Putting on my underwear, styling my hair, completing my make up, all knowing that I am making up a package that will make my client happy. I really enjoy the preparation time as well. These clients tend to be more about the physical aspect, which is fine by me but I do always worry I might not meet their expectations. My last client did comment that I looked so much better in person than in the photo's, which I don't think is true, but it was a lovely compliment nether the less.

On the other hand I also love the really laid back client who doesn't have any requests other than obviously being the person in the photos. I will always be smart and sexy, underwear will always be matching but it gives it a little bit of excitement not knowing what floats their boat. They tend to be looking for more about the connection, the girlfriend experience which I absolutely love.

One client wanted to check my build, honesty is my policy and I replied very truthfully that if someone is looking for a schoolgirl type, that is not me, but if you are looking for a woman with a generous bum and curves, hourglass figure but not a bbw, then I am for you. I am not, and never will be skinny, neither will I be slim, I am shapely, womanly and more like a girlfriend than a glamour model. I have a few bumpy bits, and I'm not just talking about my 34DD breasts, but I am fit, healthy with a love for sex, life, men, passion and food and I'm happy with my body and a big believer that no matter what size or shape you are you should be happy and proud of your body! (women love men with a few more pounds than they would ideally like, perhaps call it carrying a bit of condition, makes us feel a lot less insecure). I do believe as well though that if your body is putting your health at risk by being too thin or too fat then perhaps it is time to have a look at your life and see whether it isn't time to address some of those internal issues that are showing themselves externally. (Bit deep for an escorts blog, but I do have a degree in psychology and am pasionate about body image, and the connection that our body and appearance has on our mental state and vice versa)

One client asked me what would I do if I met a client who really didn't float my boat. Honestly, I think 99% of men have really good qualities that if not obvious to the naked eye at first, can quickly be identified over a glass of wine and a conversation. However on the off chance I do meet a client, who lets say is unclean, or really not my type at all, then I would be polite, explain that it won't work between us and that it would be unfair of me to take any payment for time as I wouldn't be able to provide the level of service he was looking for.

I would also expect that if I met with a client and he didn't feel that he was well matched with me (never happened, but lets just say), then I would much prefer him to be honest with me at the start, reimburse my travel costs and we'd agree to go our own ways. I truly believe that the escort business, (or at least the escort business I am in) is about meeting with clients with whom you can connect and who you are able to make them feel much better after the meeting than before, and you shouldn't go ahead with the meeting if you don't think you will be able to fufil this basic criteria. Again, for the clients I think you have the right to cancel your meeting if you don't think that the person is going to be able to achieve this criteria for you. This is not to say I endorse time wasters, trust me I truly don't, but the profession of being an escort is that we are naturally able at putting people at ease quickly and being able to connect closely and comfortably with a wide variety of clients so lets be honest, if we are any good at our job it should be very rare that any client says I don't think you are for me.

So with that in mind, I'm hoping for some really good meets this week, remember if you want me to book in advance, and to be proud of your body and your sexuality.