Ok, so first things first, what makes men mature? You might say absolutely nothing and that they all suffer from the peter pan complex but I would disagree. When I say mature; I am talking about the man that has stopped laughing at his own farts, and no longer tries to burp the alphabet, but not quite at zimmer frame and pace maker stage.
As long as the man in question is fit and healthy and knows how to treat a woman then I don't have an issue.
So, why am I talking about mature men? Well, I was watching "Kidnap and Ransom" and I found I have a real thing for Trevor Eve. Add him to my list beside Martin Shaw, Robbie Coltrane (in Cracker not as Hagrid lol) and Sean Connery and I think that is quite an eclectic mix of maturity that I find stimulating.
I obviously can't name names of mature men that I have met, but needless to say I find them very stimulating for my mind and body. I think their eyes tell stories, as do the lines on their faces, they no longer worry about the unimportant stuff like: hair on a mans body, or whether they carry a little too much condition on their torso; they have gone beyond who has the biggest guns, or pistol for that matter and have learned to deal with what they have got and make the best use of it, whether that is fat, thin, hairy, bald, smooth, rough, big or little.
I might just add that all the mature men on my list also seem to bring something else to the table (whether it is them in real life or the fictional characters they play) and that is for them to gain my respect. Robbie Coltrane in Cracker, wow, that guy was amazing at his job as forensic psychologist and it desn't matter that he was a little large, or rude, or messed up a lot. Sean Connery as most characters, to be honest, less about respect and more just wanting him to talk dirty to me. Sean, if you ever read this can you send me a recording of filthy talk please and make my year? A few lines of "suck my cock", "fuck me harder" "sit on it and ride" and anything else that springs into your mind will do. Martin Shaw, OMG: Judge John Deed, doesn't get much more respectful than that, a man who knows what he wants and gets it, Martin Shaw, you do it for me. Finally Trevor Eve, whether in Waking the Dead, or Kidnap and Ransom you are a man that I would love to have a drink with and you could wrap me around your little finger.
So, in conclusion, it is not maturity as such that makes a man attractive and me very horny, but more that they are better at me at something, ideally expert level, someone that can teach me something, that brings something to the table and has a real passion in their life. I don't care whether it is being a player and having a talent in construction, or art, or kayaking, or teaching, or cooking, or writing, or the stockmarket, or property, or rugby, fitness, or IT, or outdoor pursuits, or exploring, or selling, or NLP or negotiation, or politics, or accountancy or ... fill in as you please....
So reading this blog what have we learned?
Taylor, (me), is not attracted to maturity as such, she is attracted to men who deserve respect. For example I have lusted after my biology teacher (not only was he not particularly attractive but boy was he good at his job and I might add he was one that got away), I've always wanted a teacher so at college I had my PE Teacher (bit of a let down and I still fantasise that my biology teacher would have been amazing), I've had my fair share of professional sportsmen, who don't let the side down but no comments there, the policeman that pulled me over for speeding, my bosses that impressed me at work throughout my career, the top dog boy at my school, and so on. You can assume from this that I am an Alpha female (If I meet someone who impresses me and deserves my respect, I find that in itself attractive and a real turn on, I find out what the man is good at, it makes me want them and I have to have them and genrally I make it my mission to get what I want).
So now we know I'm an alpha female, I like to be in control, but I also like to meet my match and someone that can to an extent control me. Remind me in my next blog to write about the softer side of me, the one that makes an appearance when I have a nervous client, or a first timer, or an unconfident man who needs their masculinity building back up. (next time). Until then, sleep tight and man or woman, complete your pelvic floor exercises, it works wonders for your sex life and power of orgasms.
Taylor x x
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