To all my lovely clients and blog readers,
Just a note to say goodbye. A sad time I've had a wonderful experience working as an escort, and met some of the best clients. I consider myself extremely lucky and privileged to have met you and been able to share many fun times with you.
My time is now taken up with my professional day time business, but you never know if my circumstances change I might just make a reappearance in this world. I will definitely miss the excitement, the wonderful gentlemen, and being treated like a princess. I'm now going to try and behave myself in the real world and possibly even consider finding a boyfriend (although not at the top of my list of priorities).
Take care, stay safe, have fun, and remember that the best sex is with someone you are comfortable with, can communicate with and you can be yourself with. There is no right or wrong way, as long as both parties are in agreement and on the same wavelength.
Try new things, taste new things, don't judge, and remember the path to climax can be just as much fun as the climax itself.
I only hope that I can meet such great gentlemen in real life as I did in my working girl life.
xxx
Friday, August 31, 2012
Monday, June 25, 2012
Watermelon, imagination and food play
I'm sat at my desk, trying to do my day job, eating watermelon, and I can't get a thought out of my head so I thought I'd share it with you.
What thought? I'm glad you asked.
I'm naked, you're naked and we're standing up facing each other. In my hands is a huge chunk of ripe, juicy watermelon, and I crush it and let the juices roll down your chest, down past your belly button and watch it slide down your cock to where my mouth is now waiting, wide open to receive the dripping juice. For the next few minutes I get to work my way up your body licking it clean, flicking the spilt seeds with my tongue, licking the juice and sliding my body over yours. You then get your turn, to crush the watermelon over my breasts and watch it drip from my erect nipples and run down between my breasts, over my stomach towards my smooth pussy, where your mouth will be waiting to drink the sweet and tasty juice.
With an imagination like mine it's a wonder I get any work done at all.
Which brings me on nicely to food play. Just in case you don't know what it is, it is what it says. Playing with food but with sexual connetations. Imagine the feeling of the missionary position with a woman covered in say, custard, or doing body shots of Tequila (my favourite shot) by licking the salt from my breast, drinking the shot from a shot glass held in place by my pussy and sucking the lemon from my mouth. Or what about a striptease from me with warm choclate running down my body. Perhaps the idea of eating a ripe and juicy mango and watching as the juices fall froom my mouth. Or even preparing dinner together naked, imagine the playful opportunities as I bend to get the vegeatbles out from the bottom shelf in the fridge. The uses of courgettes, cucumbers and bananas is obvious but fun, especially if they have been in the fridge and have an element of cold. What about a blow job but with using different drinks to make it a little different. Perhaps a warm cup of tea, moist and wet and warm liquid filled mouth, or perhaps an ice cold drink of water to wake up every sense you have when I take your cock in my mouth and it recives a pleasantly cold sensation. Or perhaps you'd like to try what happens if I have a mouth full of sparkling water and you can feel all the bubbles popping on your penis head, having a party in my mouth. To having ice cubes rubbed on your nipples, or my nipples, watching them melt away. Or my personal favourite, Haagen Daas ice cream, the fun need never end.
With all that in mind, I do like food play, I say sitting here with my watermelon in my mouth and if it's something you'd like to try then let me know and I'm sure we can sort something out.
Hope your weekend was good, I spent mine doing the family thing on Saturday, followed by a day in London on Sunday, watched the Royal Philharmonic orchestra at the Royal Albert Hall whilst they played along to West Side Story (yes I am an old romantic at heart), did a bit of shopping, some new Dior makeup and a pair of jeans, followed by Dim Sum in China town (actually, I reckon Dim Sum could be quite erotic, given the slimy texture and juiciness of the food) and then watching the England match with a friend in the pub, followed by the train home. Not bad at all, apart from England losing, they were just lucky that they managed to drag the loss out as long as they did.
Look forward to hearing from you x x
I forgot to add, my availability in the next few weeks, Fully booked week beginning 25/6/12, and I have one space available for a client week beginning 2/7/12, then I'm off for a hen weekend (not mine obviously) so not available 6th, 7th or 8th July. I am away for a weekend to stay in a tippee 26th, 27th and 28th July. Other than that I am available and at your disposal, so to speak. Stay happy and safe.
What thought? I'm glad you asked.
I'm naked, you're naked and we're standing up facing each other. In my hands is a huge chunk of ripe, juicy watermelon, and I crush it and let the juices roll down your chest, down past your belly button and watch it slide down your cock to where my mouth is now waiting, wide open to receive the dripping juice. For the next few minutes I get to work my way up your body licking it clean, flicking the spilt seeds with my tongue, licking the juice and sliding my body over yours. You then get your turn, to crush the watermelon over my breasts and watch it drip from my erect nipples and run down between my breasts, over my stomach towards my smooth pussy, where your mouth will be waiting to drink the sweet and tasty juice.
With an imagination like mine it's a wonder I get any work done at all.
Which brings me on nicely to food play. Just in case you don't know what it is, it is what it says. Playing with food but with sexual connetations. Imagine the feeling of the missionary position with a woman covered in say, custard, or doing body shots of Tequila (my favourite shot) by licking the salt from my breast, drinking the shot from a shot glass held in place by my pussy and sucking the lemon from my mouth. Or what about a striptease from me with warm choclate running down my body. Perhaps the idea of eating a ripe and juicy mango and watching as the juices fall froom my mouth. Or even preparing dinner together naked, imagine the playful opportunities as I bend to get the vegeatbles out from the bottom shelf in the fridge. The uses of courgettes, cucumbers and bananas is obvious but fun, especially if they have been in the fridge and have an element of cold. What about a blow job but with using different drinks to make it a little different. Perhaps a warm cup of tea, moist and wet and warm liquid filled mouth, or perhaps an ice cold drink of water to wake up every sense you have when I take your cock in my mouth and it recives a pleasantly cold sensation. Or perhaps you'd like to try what happens if I have a mouth full of sparkling water and you can feel all the bubbles popping on your penis head, having a party in my mouth. To having ice cubes rubbed on your nipples, or my nipples, watching them melt away. Or my personal favourite, Haagen Daas ice cream, the fun need never end.
With all that in mind, I do like food play, I say sitting here with my watermelon in my mouth and if it's something you'd like to try then let me know and I'm sure we can sort something out.
Hope your weekend was good, I spent mine doing the family thing on Saturday, followed by a day in London on Sunday, watched the Royal Philharmonic orchestra at the Royal Albert Hall whilst they played along to West Side Story (yes I am an old romantic at heart), did a bit of shopping, some new Dior makeup and a pair of jeans, followed by Dim Sum in China town (actually, I reckon Dim Sum could be quite erotic, given the slimy texture and juiciness of the food) and then watching the England match with a friend in the pub, followed by the train home. Not bad at all, apart from England losing, they were just lucky that they managed to drag the loss out as long as they did.
Look forward to hearing from you x x
I forgot to add, my availability in the next few weeks, Fully booked week beginning 25/6/12, and I have one space available for a client week beginning 2/7/12, then I'm off for a hen weekend (not mine obviously) so not available 6th, 7th or 8th July. I am away for a weekend to stay in a tippee 26th, 27th and 28th July. Other than that I am available and at your disposal, so to speak. Stay happy and safe.
Friday, June 15, 2012
Rain and wet knickers (exercise, sex drive, and attention)
Following on from my last blurb about exercising to lose a few pounds and tone up it is time for an update. I can now run 7 miles at a time which I do once a week, with 2 lots of 4 mile runs in there as well. Not bad I think and I'm hoping you will notice the difference in my bum next time you see me.
Doing exercise is having an effect on me and making me very horny, bit bazaar when I return from a seven mile run in the rain, hot sweaty and soaking wet, so I strip off naked in the porch because even my knickers are drenched from the rain, take off my two sports bras (preventative measures to prevent too much movement) as they are also soaked and go and have a long hot shower. Before I do I stop off and go into my private drawer, pick up my waterproof rabbit and have some fun in the shower (unfortunately by myself, my clients will know that although I can orgasm very easily with a rabbit using it on myself, but my orgasm is soooo much more intense when someone else uses it on me). As I bring myself to climax I think about my clients kissing my neck and standing behind me and imagine they are doing it to me, and I can feel their hard cock against my bum and if it was for real then I would happily turn around and return the favour, which does make it that little bit better.
Jogging, leads to a higher sex drive means I am really after some action, luckily I'm seeing quite a bit of my clients over the next two weeks which should hopefully not only fulfil my sex drive but also satisfy my need for attention from gorgeous men. Looking forward to not only the intimacy, but the talks, the skin contact, the sex, the eye contact, wanting them and them wanting me. I'm getting horny just thinking about it. I know some escorts don't like to be contacted between bookings but I do, (only from my regular clients, not from people that haven't made a booking). I like to know they are thinking of me as you can bet your life that I am thinking about them.
Really looking forward to next weekend and the weekend after. Just need a client to see in the week so I don't have to go a full week without company. Can't wait to get some attention and be able to lavish all my attention on my clients. Will be putting on my best undies, get my nails done, and putting on my make up so that I look hot for you. (much better than the just returned from a long run look).
Remember to call me or email me to make a booking, and if you're not a client yet I'd love to hear from you, but don't waste your time or mine by calling if you want free phone sex, or if you just want to get your leg over. I am a woman who loves her men and looks forward to seeing my clients and have very open and honest relationships with them. Being their temporary girlfriend with no strings. I am not a turn up at your door, and action kind of lady, (actually that's not true, I'm not that with new clients, but once I get to know them I'd love it if I walked through their door and they stripped me off there and then). If you want to pay extra for the experience of having a real woman who really does want to see you and wants to spend time with you then get in touch. If you want someone to treat like a piece of meat then don't bother (there are much cheaper options out there).
I must admit, I don't do single very well as I do like attention from men and to give attention to men. This is one of the reasons why I am doing this job. I have come out of a long term relationship (about 6 months ago, of no attention at all) and decided that I shouldn't do my usual of getting in a relationship with the next man who shows me attention, so instead I decided that I would do this job where I am in no way at risk of entering a permanent relationship, just the temporary ones as mentioned before. This way I get my attention fix, I get to pleasure men and for them to really enjoy having my company and my attention. Again selfishly I love that they enjoy me enjoying them, it is such a compliment. Who would want a permanent relationship when I can meet such wonderful, professional, intelligent, handsome, stimulating men who fufil my needs and help me to pay my bills at the same time without any risk of strings getting in the way for anyone?
Have a good weekend
To those of you I already know, I am thinking of you. x
Doing exercise is having an effect on me and making me very horny, bit bazaar when I return from a seven mile run in the rain, hot sweaty and soaking wet, so I strip off naked in the porch because even my knickers are drenched from the rain, take off my two sports bras (preventative measures to prevent too much movement) as they are also soaked and go and have a long hot shower. Before I do I stop off and go into my private drawer, pick up my waterproof rabbit and have some fun in the shower (unfortunately by myself, my clients will know that although I can orgasm very easily with a rabbit using it on myself, but my orgasm is soooo much more intense when someone else uses it on me). As I bring myself to climax I think about my clients kissing my neck and standing behind me and imagine they are doing it to me, and I can feel their hard cock against my bum and if it was for real then I would happily turn around and return the favour, which does make it that little bit better.
Jogging, leads to a higher sex drive means I am really after some action, luckily I'm seeing quite a bit of my clients over the next two weeks which should hopefully not only fulfil my sex drive but also satisfy my need for attention from gorgeous men. Looking forward to not only the intimacy, but the talks, the skin contact, the sex, the eye contact, wanting them and them wanting me. I'm getting horny just thinking about it. I know some escorts don't like to be contacted between bookings but I do, (only from my regular clients, not from people that haven't made a booking). I like to know they are thinking of me as you can bet your life that I am thinking about them.
Really looking forward to next weekend and the weekend after. Just need a client to see in the week so I don't have to go a full week without company. Can't wait to get some attention and be able to lavish all my attention on my clients. Will be putting on my best undies, get my nails done, and putting on my make up so that I look hot for you. (much better than the just returned from a long run look).
Remember to call me or email me to make a booking, and if you're not a client yet I'd love to hear from you, but don't waste your time or mine by calling if you want free phone sex, or if you just want to get your leg over. I am a woman who loves her men and looks forward to seeing my clients and have very open and honest relationships with them. Being their temporary girlfriend with no strings. I am not a turn up at your door, and action kind of lady, (actually that's not true, I'm not that with new clients, but once I get to know them I'd love it if I walked through their door and they stripped me off there and then). If you want to pay extra for the experience of having a real woman who really does want to see you and wants to spend time with you then get in touch. If you want someone to treat like a piece of meat then don't bother (there are much cheaper options out there).
I must admit, I don't do single very well as I do like attention from men and to give attention to men. This is one of the reasons why I am doing this job. I have come out of a long term relationship (about 6 months ago, of no attention at all) and decided that I shouldn't do my usual of getting in a relationship with the next man who shows me attention, so instead I decided that I would do this job where I am in no way at risk of entering a permanent relationship, just the temporary ones as mentioned before. This way I get my attention fix, I get to pleasure men and for them to really enjoy having my company and my attention. Again selfishly I love that they enjoy me enjoying them, it is such a compliment. Who would want a permanent relationship when I can meet such wonderful, professional, intelligent, handsome, stimulating men who fufil my needs and help me to pay my bills at the same time without any risk of strings getting in the way for anyone?
Have a good weekend
To those of you I already know, I am thinking of you. x
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
Sex and exercise and me (of course)
Sex is the most fun form of exercise and is underused as a weight loss tool!!
Why this topic on the blog: For the past few weeks business has got quiet, and I'm starting to feel a bit self conscious that I need to shed a few pounds. My regulars are all finding it hard to escape from their real lives (real women) and I want some company and to be spoilt, not to mention enough money to pay the bills and to exercise but in the best way ever invented : )
You may be thinking, I don't want to read about a woman moaning about her weight, I promise this isn't that, well not totally anyway, there is a decent section on how you can help with my mission too.
How much weight do I need to get rid of? Well to be honest I'd love two stone, but let us be real about this; two stone and I'd be back to prepubescent weight, therefore I will settle for a stone. My reward? Apart from looking hotter, having tighter abs, a body with a bit more definition, my reward will be one of three things depending on how many bookings I get between now and minus 1 stone. You're not really interested in my rewards so I'll leave those to the end of my blog.
Now, I don't want you to feel self conscious about your weight, I love men to be confident in their own body, fat, thin, hairy or not, however it comes (excuse the pun). I have no issue with a little condition as long as it doesn't affect your health, but you pay me to look good and feel good and so it is my job to make sure I stay in shape. It's not that I don't like my body, I do, it's a great, curvy, womanly body made for pleasing men and myself, but it could just do with a bit of tweaking.
Since giving up smoking almost a year ago I have put on half a stone (not since the photos, since the photos I'm only 3lbs bigger so don't panic that you're going to get a whale on your doorstep). All I'm saying is that it won't do me any harm to stop eating ice cream and start exercising again. For those of you who know me well, you'll know that I lead a very busy life and my day job involves sitting in front of a computer, with not really opportunities to go to the gym or classes, or horse ride, or join a local sports team which I'd like to do so I'm settling for walking and jogging on my errands as opposed to driving.
Hmmm, not as exciting as bedroom aerobics you say, agreed, but I don't have a partner and you guys aren't making enough bookings to burn my calories so I'm having to walk, and jog (I wear two sports bras to keep my chest from bouncing around too much). I've done about 8 miles this week, which isn't much but it's better than being stationary.
I am going to start my pole dancing and lap dancing classes again and that will help my waist line and our fun time too. It is such a giggle, girls together attempting tricks on poles, and it's so much harder to do than you think. It's one thing doing the tricks, it's another trying not to show the exertion on your face and looking sexy instead. I have much respect for the girls that do it for a living. I love doing it, I'm just not that great at it yet, but I'm anything if not a tryer.
Where do you come in? Here:
Kissing = 68 calories per hour
Undressing = at least 8, but I'm sure we could increase that
Massaging = 80+ per hour depending on vigour
SEX = 144 + per 30 mins. The key for high-calorie-burning sex is making it hot and making it last, say experts.
Moaning and sighing = an extra 18 to 30 calories (good for me as I'm not the quietest)
The best way to maximize calorie-burning during sex is to make sure you orgasm. Experts estimate that women who orgasm during sex burn more calories during lovemaking than those who don’t.
Oral sex = 100 calories per 30 min
So, I hear you ask what can you do to help me reach my goals/target of minus 1 stone? Here are some ideas:
1) Make a booking and let me ride you until we both glisten, perhaps the belly dancing hip rotation, or the ride them deep, or the bouncing up and down on your cock, they all give me a work out and turn me on
2) Help my diet by providing me with a high in protein, low in fat drink from your cock.
3) Perhaps a booking that involves a quick blow job before going for a drink and a natter followed by bedroom aerobics, horizontal, vertical, bent over, fast, slow, hard, soft, deep and shallow?
4) Make a longer booking which involves some activity such as hill walking, horse riding, scrambling, gorge walking, swimming in the sea, surfing, jet skiing, in fact any activity except caving. (If the coast is clear you never know what we could get up to on our activity). We can then get a hot bath/ shower together and get all lathered up, collapse on the bed and massage each others bodies with oil before letting me sit on your cock and thrust until you are spent.
5) Stop giving me chocolates, it's not that I don't appreciate them, I do, too much in fact, but it doesn't help my waist line.
6) Have fun with me, the more orgasms I have, the more my muscles get used (I promise to repay the favour)
7) Book a really special night out with me to somewhere where I'd have to get really dressed up and I'd want you to be really proud to have me on your arm
8) Book a night with me where we can go through the Karma Sutra together and use muscles we never knew existed
9) Bring some fresh fruit and we can play naked body fruit salad buffet. Eating strawberries from nipples, blueberries from belly buttons, bananas from.... and you get the general idea.
10) Any other suggestions gratefully accepted
Now for my rewards when I hit my target of minus one stone:
Possible reward 1) A Karen Millen dress, something tight, clingy and tailored to show off my figure
Possible reward 2) Underwear, in my dreams stunning Agent Provocateur failing that something that looks and feels equally glamorous without the price tag. (Unfortunately I have too many jobs that I need addressing in my house before I can be outrageous enough to spend vast money on amazing underwear).
Possible reward 3) A holiday, get a tan and strut my minus 1 stone body on the beach in a skimpy bikini.
Bring on the weight loss and the fun and finally the rewards. Spread the word, Foreplay and Sex is the new exercise class. (now there's an idea...................I wonder if Duncan Bannatyne would want a demonstration for his gyms?)
Why this topic on the blog: For the past few weeks business has got quiet, and I'm starting to feel a bit self conscious that I need to shed a few pounds. My regulars are all finding it hard to escape from their real lives (real women) and I want some company and to be spoilt, not to mention enough money to pay the bills and to exercise but in the best way ever invented : )
You may be thinking, I don't want to read about a woman moaning about her weight, I promise this isn't that, well not totally anyway, there is a decent section on how you can help with my mission too.
How much weight do I need to get rid of? Well to be honest I'd love two stone, but let us be real about this; two stone and I'd be back to prepubescent weight, therefore I will settle for a stone. My reward? Apart from looking hotter, having tighter abs, a body with a bit more definition, my reward will be one of three things depending on how many bookings I get between now and minus 1 stone. You're not really interested in my rewards so I'll leave those to the end of my blog.
Now, I don't want you to feel self conscious about your weight, I love men to be confident in their own body, fat, thin, hairy or not, however it comes (excuse the pun). I have no issue with a little condition as long as it doesn't affect your health, but you pay me to look good and feel good and so it is my job to make sure I stay in shape. It's not that I don't like my body, I do, it's a great, curvy, womanly body made for pleasing men and myself, but it could just do with a bit of tweaking.
Since giving up smoking almost a year ago I have put on half a stone (not since the photos, since the photos I'm only 3lbs bigger so don't panic that you're going to get a whale on your doorstep). All I'm saying is that it won't do me any harm to stop eating ice cream and start exercising again. For those of you who know me well, you'll know that I lead a very busy life and my day job involves sitting in front of a computer, with not really opportunities to go to the gym or classes, or horse ride, or join a local sports team which I'd like to do so I'm settling for walking and jogging on my errands as opposed to driving.
Hmmm, not as exciting as bedroom aerobics you say, agreed, but I don't have a partner and you guys aren't making enough bookings to burn my calories so I'm having to walk, and jog (I wear two sports bras to keep my chest from bouncing around too much). I've done about 8 miles this week, which isn't much but it's better than being stationary.
I am going to start my pole dancing and lap dancing classes again and that will help my waist line and our fun time too. It is such a giggle, girls together attempting tricks on poles, and it's so much harder to do than you think. It's one thing doing the tricks, it's another trying not to show the exertion on your face and looking sexy instead. I have much respect for the girls that do it for a living. I love doing it, I'm just not that great at it yet, but I'm anything if not a tryer.
Where do you come in? Here:
Kissing = 68 calories per hour
Undressing = at least 8, but I'm sure we could increase that
Massaging = 80+ per hour depending on vigour
SEX = 144 + per 30 mins. The key for high-calorie-burning sex is making it hot and making it last, say experts.
Moaning and sighing = an extra 18 to 30 calories (good for me as I'm not the quietest)
The best way to maximize calorie-burning during sex is to make sure you orgasm. Experts estimate that women who orgasm during sex burn more calories during lovemaking than those who don’t.
Oral sex = 100 calories per 30 min
So, I hear you ask what can you do to help me reach my goals/target of minus 1 stone? Here are some ideas:
1) Make a booking and let me ride you until we both glisten, perhaps the belly dancing hip rotation, or the ride them deep, or the bouncing up and down on your cock, they all give me a work out and turn me on
2) Help my diet by providing me with a high in protein, low in fat drink from your cock.
3) Perhaps a booking that involves a quick blow job before going for a drink and a natter followed by bedroom aerobics, horizontal, vertical, bent over, fast, slow, hard, soft, deep and shallow?
4) Make a longer booking which involves some activity such as hill walking, horse riding, scrambling, gorge walking, swimming in the sea, surfing, jet skiing, in fact any activity except caving. (If the coast is clear you never know what we could get up to on our activity). We can then get a hot bath/ shower together and get all lathered up, collapse on the bed and massage each others bodies with oil before letting me sit on your cock and thrust until you are spent.
5) Stop giving me chocolates, it's not that I don't appreciate them, I do, too much in fact, but it doesn't help my waist line.
6) Have fun with me, the more orgasms I have, the more my muscles get used (I promise to repay the favour)
7) Book a really special night out with me to somewhere where I'd have to get really dressed up and I'd want you to be really proud to have me on your arm
8) Book a night with me where we can go through the Karma Sutra together and use muscles we never knew existed
9) Bring some fresh fruit and we can play naked body fruit salad buffet. Eating strawberries from nipples, blueberries from belly buttons, bananas from.... and you get the general idea.
10) Any other suggestions gratefully accepted
Now for my rewards when I hit my target of minus one stone:
Possible reward 1) A Karen Millen dress, something tight, clingy and tailored to show off my figure
Possible reward 2) Underwear, in my dreams stunning Agent Provocateur failing that something that looks and feels equally glamorous without the price tag. (Unfortunately I have too many jobs that I need addressing in my house before I can be outrageous enough to spend vast money on amazing underwear).
Possible reward 3) A holiday, get a tan and strut my minus 1 stone body on the beach in a skimpy bikini.
Bring on the weight loss and the fun and finally the rewards. Spread the word, Foreplay and Sex is the new exercise class. (now there's an idea...................I wonder if Duncan Bannatyne would want a demonstration for his gyms?)
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Tips on how to use an escort and NOT get caught!
After a weekend away (in fact a girl friend's birthday adult weekend to a holiday park which was the English version of Magaluf for the over 30's), utterly nightmarish but I put on a good act and made the best of a bad situation. I'm now back and thought I would share some basics on how to not get caught.
Sometimes I think that some clients subconsciously want their partner to find out about their affairs as the errors they make are so fundamental it screams "catch me". I for one certainly do not want anyone to get caught using an escort, or having an affair, especially with me. I'm more than happy to put a smile on my clients face but I have no desire to wipe a smile off anyone's face so please don't get me involved in any relationship issues.
Here's my idiots guide on how NOT to be an idiot and NOT get caught.
1) Keep your lies as close to the truth as possible: you are obviously a lot more believable when you tell the truth, so tell 90% of the truth. Say you took a day off to go shopping, go shopping, but you don't need to to tell her about the couple of hours spent with me. If you go away with the lads and one of the nights is spent with me, then you just tell as much of the truth as possible without telling the whole truth. In a nutshell: don't lie, just omit the details she doesn't need to know. Fit me into a slot when you have already made plans to stay away for work.
2) Have a bank account she doesn't know about: Easy enough these days with on line banking and paperless statements, just make sure you inform the bank not to post you anything. Pull the cash from this account, pay the hotels and dates from this account and make sure you get rid of all the receipts before going home.
3) Shower before you go home: Don't just have a wash but it's a good idea to change your clothes, so any stray hairs, smell of perfume (I don't wear perfume for this reason) is removed and you can walk in much more relaxed than on edge.
4) Have a legitimate excuse for getting out more: Decide to follow a football team more passionately, attending matches, away fixtures, this way you can have fun following the football team and then when you want to ditch the football and see me you have a perfect window of a few hours without your lady wondering what you are up to. Plus they don't want to know the details of the football match, quite simply we won, or we lost, or we drew will be about as much info as they want, and they will be pleased to see you haven't come back drunk, so you're in the good books. Or join a book club, archery, shooting, pottery, whatever it is it has to be something you do like and do, to maintain point 1)'s point, and something your wife will not want to do.
5) Go on regular man-cations, whether it be with your local friends, or friends you haven't caught up with for a long time and have re found on facebook etc, school college, uni, hometown friends. This way it won't seem unusual when you stay away for a weekend to see a mate from your past, which just so happens to be me.
6) Don't fall in love: I know, very difficult after you've met me (only joking) but if you are looking for love you need a divorce not me. If you are looking for fun, keep it as that and keep to the times when we meet, to spoil me and the in between meetings time is all about you and your partner.
7) Always practice safe sex: easy with me as I won't have it any other way, but just in case you stupidly decide to have an affair rather than an escort nothing screams affair more than an std, or a pregnant woman on your doorstep
8) DO have a secret email account and DON'T add it to your phone: Get into the habit of closing down all your screens and setting up an automatic lock on your computer every time you leave it, yes, even if it is just to make a coffee, you never know when she will find the urge just to check something and ping, you're in trouble. if she asks why you have password locks on phones and computers then blame work and say that risk maangement have strict guidelines.
9) Delete your Internet history every day, or set it up so it is deleted every session. If they do decide to pry make sure you come away squeaky clean.
10) If you must text, then keep it to innocent messages: "can you confirm our lunch meeting" NOT "you make me so horny I can't wait to meet for lunch followed by you naked". Again, if you delete all your texts, then make sure it is consistent, i.e. set your phone up not to keep texts and sent items, don't suddenly start deleting all when she becomes suspicious.
11) Remember who comes first: Your long term partner does! If you are only using an escort for sexual gratification remember to appreciate your partner because of all the other things she adds to your life and make sure you let her know you appreciate it. Whether that be listening to her when she's had a bad day, to doing something she wants to do at the weekend, yes, seeing that rom com at the cinema that she wants to see and just enjoy pleasing her. You have you time, with me; so make time for her with you and make it special for her.
12) Use the different postcode rule: Don't cheat on your doorstep, remember that although escorts are so much more discreet than affairs, it only takes one nosy neighbour to see you going into someone else's house. Different postcodes, different counties, reduces the risk.
13) Tell no one: this keeps it easy for your friends and family: they shouldn't have to lie for you, and if you follow the simple rules they won't need to.
14) Ideally don't save my number to your phone: but as I have a name that could be for either sex then it is not so bad, but if you're escort is called Cristal, or Mistress Dominatrix, then either don't save the number, (we're quite easy to find again on the Internet), or save it under a company name. Delete all phone records for that person ever time you communicate.
What I do to make sure you don't get caught:
1) My answering machine message is just a phone one, it doesn't say who it is, this does mean sometimes potential clients won't leave messages as they are not sure they have the right number but it also means that nosy partners won't know anything.
2) If I do answer it will always just be a "Hello, Taylor speaking" and I won't ever answer with a hey honey, or any sexual content.
3) I don't wear perfume unless you are single
4) I don't call or text without contact from you and if I call I let it ring once and put it down. If I text it will be neutral, "sorry I missed your call", or " all confirmed for Tuesday" and so on
5) I don't have a partner so there is no one at this end who gets jealous or nosy
6) My security buddy is the only person who knows who I meet, when and where and all details are destroyed after I arrive home from that meeting
7) Some of my friends know I am an escort, but I don't discuss my clients with anyone
8) I don't fall in love. I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the company of my clients and the time I spend with them but I am fiercely independent and the reason why I like my clients so much is because it is temporary. Our time together is very personal but our time apart is all business and I am lucky that I can keep my emotions in check. I do think about my clients and smile at the memories of the good times, or at the thought of a future booking but when I'm not with you, you are a client and when I am with you, you are a temporary boyfriend.
9) I have no desire to break up relationships, in fact I like to think that my service enables relationships to stay together for longer because it keeps all parties happy.
10) If I save your number on my phone it is under a code and not a name and all texts, call logs are deleted constantly.
So that's it, a bit of a serious one I'm afraid, but just wanted to give you guys the heads up so you can stay one step ahead of your partners, as I'd hate for a relationship to suffer just because you needed to get some needs met but weren't discreet enough about it.
Stay safe, have fun and call me or email me to book an appointment. I'd love to hear from you.
Taylor x x
Sometimes I think that some clients subconsciously want their partner to find out about their affairs as the errors they make are so fundamental it screams "catch me". I for one certainly do not want anyone to get caught using an escort, or having an affair, especially with me. I'm more than happy to put a smile on my clients face but I have no desire to wipe a smile off anyone's face so please don't get me involved in any relationship issues.
Here's my idiots guide on how NOT to be an idiot and NOT get caught.
1) Keep your lies as close to the truth as possible: you are obviously a lot more believable when you tell the truth, so tell 90% of the truth. Say you took a day off to go shopping, go shopping, but you don't need to to tell her about the couple of hours spent with me. If you go away with the lads and one of the nights is spent with me, then you just tell as much of the truth as possible without telling the whole truth. In a nutshell: don't lie, just omit the details she doesn't need to know. Fit me into a slot when you have already made plans to stay away for work.
2) Have a bank account she doesn't know about: Easy enough these days with on line banking and paperless statements, just make sure you inform the bank not to post you anything. Pull the cash from this account, pay the hotels and dates from this account and make sure you get rid of all the receipts before going home.
3) Shower before you go home: Don't just have a wash but it's a good idea to change your clothes, so any stray hairs, smell of perfume (I don't wear perfume for this reason) is removed and you can walk in much more relaxed than on edge.
4) Have a legitimate excuse for getting out more: Decide to follow a football team more passionately, attending matches, away fixtures, this way you can have fun following the football team and then when you want to ditch the football and see me you have a perfect window of a few hours without your lady wondering what you are up to. Plus they don't want to know the details of the football match, quite simply we won, or we lost, or we drew will be about as much info as they want, and they will be pleased to see you haven't come back drunk, so you're in the good books. Or join a book club, archery, shooting, pottery, whatever it is it has to be something you do like and do, to maintain point 1)'s point, and something your wife will not want to do.
5) Go on regular man-cations, whether it be with your local friends, or friends you haven't caught up with for a long time and have re found on facebook etc, school college, uni, hometown friends. This way it won't seem unusual when you stay away for a weekend to see a mate from your past, which just so happens to be me.
6) Don't fall in love: I know, very difficult after you've met me (only joking) but if you are looking for love you need a divorce not me. If you are looking for fun, keep it as that and keep to the times when we meet, to spoil me and the in between meetings time is all about you and your partner.
7) Always practice safe sex: easy with me as I won't have it any other way, but just in case you stupidly decide to have an affair rather than an escort nothing screams affair more than an std, or a pregnant woman on your doorstep
8) DO have a secret email account and DON'T add it to your phone: Get into the habit of closing down all your screens and setting up an automatic lock on your computer every time you leave it, yes, even if it is just to make a coffee, you never know when she will find the urge just to check something and ping, you're in trouble. if she asks why you have password locks on phones and computers then blame work and say that risk maangement have strict guidelines.
9) Delete your Internet history every day, or set it up so it is deleted every session. If they do decide to pry make sure you come away squeaky clean.
10) If you must text, then keep it to innocent messages: "can you confirm our lunch meeting" NOT "you make me so horny I can't wait to meet for lunch followed by you naked". Again, if you delete all your texts, then make sure it is consistent, i.e. set your phone up not to keep texts and sent items, don't suddenly start deleting all when she becomes suspicious.
11) Remember who comes first: Your long term partner does! If you are only using an escort for sexual gratification remember to appreciate your partner because of all the other things she adds to your life and make sure you let her know you appreciate it. Whether that be listening to her when she's had a bad day, to doing something she wants to do at the weekend, yes, seeing that rom com at the cinema that she wants to see and just enjoy pleasing her. You have you time, with me; so make time for her with you and make it special for her.
12) Use the different postcode rule: Don't cheat on your doorstep, remember that although escorts are so much more discreet than affairs, it only takes one nosy neighbour to see you going into someone else's house. Different postcodes, different counties, reduces the risk.
13) Tell no one: this keeps it easy for your friends and family: they shouldn't have to lie for you, and if you follow the simple rules they won't need to.
14) Ideally don't save my number to your phone: but as I have a name that could be for either sex then it is not so bad, but if you're escort is called Cristal, or Mistress Dominatrix, then either don't save the number, (we're quite easy to find again on the Internet), or save it under a company name. Delete all phone records for that person ever time you communicate.
What I do to make sure you don't get caught:
1) My answering machine message is just a phone one, it doesn't say who it is, this does mean sometimes potential clients won't leave messages as they are not sure they have the right number but it also means that nosy partners won't know anything.
2) If I do answer it will always just be a "Hello, Taylor speaking" and I won't ever answer with a hey honey, or any sexual content.
3) I don't wear perfume unless you are single
4) I don't call or text without contact from you and if I call I let it ring once and put it down. If I text it will be neutral, "sorry I missed your call", or " all confirmed for Tuesday" and so on
5) I don't have a partner so there is no one at this end who gets jealous or nosy
6) My security buddy is the only person who knows who I meet, when and where and all details are destroyed after I arrive home from that meeting
7) Some of my friends know I am an escort, but I don't discuss my clients with anyone
8) I don't fall in love. I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the company of my clients and the time I spend with them but I am fiercely independent and the reason why I like my clients so much is because it is temporary. Our time together is very personal but our time apart is all business and I am lucky that I can keep my emotions in check. I do think about my clients and smile at the memories of the good times, or at the thought of a future booking but when I'm not with you, you are a client and when I am with you, you are a temporary boyfriend.
9) I have no desire to break up relationships, in fact I like to think that my service enables relationships to stay together for longer because it keeps all parties happy.
10) If I save your number on my phone it is under a code and not a name and all texts, call logs are deleted constantly.
So that's it, a bit of a serious one I'm afraid, but just wanted to give you guys the heads up so you can stay one step ahead of your partners, as I'd hate for a relationship to suffer just because you needed to get some needs met but weren't discreet enough about it.
Stay safe, have fun and call me or email me to book an appointment. I'd love to hear from you.
Taylor x x
Monday, May 14, 2012
Wow, what a week, and my new we-vibe, and other toys
Where to start? I've had a bit of time off from escorting, I did have some new clients wanting to arrange bookings but they didn't sound like my sort of client so didn't take them up on their kind offers. Instead I waited for my two regular clients and a new one that made last week magical. I don't have to pretend to be happy in the company of my clients and this week was spent with the most wonderful of men and all very different but equally charming and special. One said to me that "you are a very convincing girlfriend", to which I responded that it was because I don't have to try, whilst I'm in the company of my clients I like to think of me as their temporary girlfriend and them as my temporary boyfriend, I enjoy skin to skin time and kissing and cuddling, and love the intimacy of foreplay and sex so I really don't have to make an effort to pretend.
My Wednesday dinner date and post intimate time was lovely and I just hope that his wife goes away soon so I can meet up with him again, I'm pretty sure he doesn't read my blog but we have brilliant conversation, he's very tactile like me and an absolute gentleman which leads me nicely onto Thursday afternoon and my new client. A most interesting man and an intimate business relationship that I'm hoping will be very beneficial to us both. Who says business and pleasure don't mix? The agreement is that he'll show me the high life if I show him some of the lower life, and by that I mean just creating opportunities to try new things in a safe and non judgmental environment. Looking forward to more hands on and time together.
Finally a stop over on the Friday night with a lovely, lovely, caring, genuine man, second time we met, who treated me like a lady and was an excellent temporary boyfriend. Not only did he not mind when the suspender belt I'd bought was far too big and kept dropping down so much so I had to take off my stockings and belt as it was just falling off my bum, and for those of you who know me, it is an ample bum. He even allowed me to get some sleep and for that I am truly grateful, although his ability to make me climax deserves praise as well.
After all that I fell asleep on Saturday night on my lovely sofa, snuggled under my blanket 30 minutes after sitting down at 7.30pm. I was a tired little lady but would do it all again in a heartbeat.
So to summarise last week, I was kindly given a box of very special chocolates and I'd like to think my time with my clients this week was a bit like eating the chocolates. All very different, all enjoyable and mouth wateringly tempting, plenty of nuts, my faourite ingredient (well I had to get a bit of crudeness in there somewhere), and each one was best savoured slowly. The minutes of delight spent eating chocolates and being with my clients equates to a very happy Taylor. The build up of looking at the chocolates, finding out what qualities each one has and then finally experiencing them and having a taste sensation resonates pretty closely with my job and my wonderful clients.
So probably the bit that made you read this blog in the first place is the mention of my new sex toys in the title. I've always been a fan of sex toys, ever since I discovered orgasms. I break a rabbit on a regular occasion through overuse and really believe I should be a sex toy tester. I recently purchased my pink neon silicone rabbit which as any woman or man knows is even better than sliced bread and can deliver an orgasm in about 1 minute. My last five are now in rabbit graveyard after having breakdowns. On Friday I went on a bit of a spree at a well known sex toy store with a couple of clients in mind and bought something I have been dying to get for ages and due to my very generous clients this week has meant that not only can I afford to do my grocery shopping, and put my money aside for holiday and the DIY fund (no pun intended) I could also splash out on the we-vibe; a £100 vibrator to be used in a couple. For those of you who don't know what one is it is a small vibrator shaped like a c where one end slots into the pussy and the other end goes on top of the clit. You can have both ends of the C on vibrate or one or the other. It allows the man to experience the vibrations as well as the woman. I have a feeling reverse cow girl might be great as that would get the right area of his cock on the vibrations. I have as yet to try it out properly with someone so anyone who'd like to have a go let me know.
I also got a very little vibrator, little finger sized, really nice for people who might get a bit intimidated by the larger than life rabbit. My little one is for teasing and playing, feels great on a woman's clit, nipples, down the skin, or along the cock and especially held on the bit which connects the foreskin to the head (frenulum), and the scrotum to the anus (perineum). I also got a pack of toys that I first got when I was 20years old, but have broken over the years and so needed a new set. It includes a bullet, a cock ring, a vibrating cock ring, amongst other things. Needless to say there is something in there for everyone and it is a little box of tricks that I'm happy for you to play with and discover with me.
Actually I've got lots more to say but I best stop whilst I have your attention. A new client for Thursday which should be a delight followed by a weekend holiday. Don't ask where, I would much prefer to have a repeat of this weeks exploits than go on this trip, although to be honest I'd like to have this weeks exploits on a regular repeat but I'm doing a favour to a friend and I will try very hard to enjoy my weekend away.
I have spaces after the 22nd of May, so you know the best way to book me is to either call me on 07507738323 and leave a message, and if I can answer I will do, or email and introduce yourself to me at xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com. Remember to stay safe and have fun.
My Wednesday dinner date and post intimate time was lovely and I just hope that his wife goes away soon so I can meet up with him again, I'm pretty sure he doesn't read my blog but we have brilliant conversation, he's very tactile like me and an absolute gentleman which leads me nicely onto Thursday afternoon and my new client. A most interesting man and an intimate business relationship that I'm hoping will be very beneficial to us both. Who says business and pleasure don't mix? The agreement is that he'll show me the high life if I show him some of the lower life, and by that I mean just creating opportunities to try new things in a safe and non judgmental environment. Looking forward to more hands on and time together.
Finally a stop over on the Friday night with a lovely, lovely, caring, genuine man, second time we met, who treated me like a lady and was an excellent temporary boyfriend. Not only did he not mind when the suspender belt I'd bought was far too big and kept dropping down so much so I had to take off my stockings and belt as it was just falling off my bum, and for those of you who know me, it is an ample bum. He even allowed me to get some sleep and for that I am truly grateful, although his ability to make me climax deserves praise as well.
After all that I fell asleep on Saturday night on my lovely sofa, snuggled under my blanket 30 minutes after sitting down at 7.30pm. I was a tired little lady but would do it all again in a heartbeat.
So to summarise last week, I was kindly given a box of very special chocolates and I'd like to think my time with my clients this week was a bit like eating the chocolates. All very different, all enjoyable and mouth wateringly tempting, plenty of nuts, my faourite ingredient (well I had to get a bit of crudeness in there somewhere), and each one was best savoured slowly. The minutes of delight spent eating chocolates and being with my clients equates to a very happy Taylor. The build up of looking at the chocolates, finding out what qualities each one has and then finally experiencing them and having a taste sensation resonates pretty closely with my job and my wonderful clients.
So probably the bit that made you read this blog in the first place is the mention of my new sex toys in the title. I've always been a fan of sex toys, ever since I discovered orgasms. I break a rabbit on a regular occasion through overuse and really believe I should be a sex toy tester. I recently purchased my pink neon silicone rabbit which as any woman or man knows is even better than sliced bread and can deliver an orgasm in about 1 minute. My last five are now in rabbit graveyard after having breakdowns. On Friday I went on a bit of a spree at a well known sex toy store with a couple of clients in mind and bought something I have been dying to get for ages and due to my very generous clients this week has meant that not only can I afford to do my grocery shopping, and put my money aside for holiday and the DIY fund (no pun intended) I could also splash out on the we-vibe; a £100 vibrator to be used in a couple. For those of you who don't know what one is it is a small vibrator shaped like a c where one end slots into the pussy and the other end goes on top of the clit. You can have both ends of the C on vibrate or one or the other. It allows the man to experience the vibrations as well as the woman. I have a feeling reverse cow girl might be great as that would get the right area of his cock on the vibrations. I have as yet to try it out properly with someone so anyone who'd like to have a go let me know.
I also got a very little vibrator, little finger sized, really nice for people who might get a bit intimidated by the larger than life rabbit. My little one is for teasing and playing, feels great on a woman's clit, nipples, down the skin, or along the cock and especially held on the bit which connects the foreskin to the head (frenulum), and the scrotum to the anus (perineum). I also got a pack of toys that I first got when I was 20years old, but have broken over the years and so needed a new set. It includes a bullet, a cock ring, a vibrating cock ring, amongst other things. Needless to say there is something in there for everyone and it is a little box of tricks that I'm happy for you to play with and discover with me.
Actually I've got lots more to say but I best stop whilst I have your attention. A new client for Thursday which should be a delight followed by a weekend holiday. Don't ask where, I would much prefer to have a repeat of this weeks exploits than go on this trip, although to be honest I'd like to have this weeks exploits on a regular repeat but I'm doing a favour to a friend and I will try very hard to enjoy my weekend away.
I have spaces after the 22nd of May, so you know the best way to book me is to either call me on 07507738323 and leave a message, and if I can answer I will do, or email and introduce yourself to me at xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com. Remember to stay safe and have fun.
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Clients who use escorts are NOT perverts or seedy!
It gets my goat how judgemental people are of a profession they know nothing about. Both men and women who don't know anything about the escort profession have this perception of escorts and the escort business and of people who use escorts. That the escorts must be scrabbling round to make a living for some reason, drugs habit or whatever and the clients are perverted men who take advantage of vulnerable women and girls. (I think most clients will tell you the majority of escorts are anything but vulnerable).
I'm here to tell you that is NOT the case. As a post graduate educated woman, who runs her own successful business full time and works as an escort part time to increase my dispensable income but also because I enjoy meeting new people and enjoy the physical aspect I can happily say that my clients are not perverts or desperate. In fact they are polite, professional, men from a variety of careers and backgrounds who are just looking for company of a woman who actually wants to be with them and enjoys spending time, attention and affection on them and vice versa.
In fact every time I meet either one of my regular clients or a new one for the first time it amazes me that they don't have a queue of women lining up for them and that they choose to spend time and money on me. Not only are my clients good talkers and listeners, but they are fantastic in bed and just want to please, what's not to like? I understand that I am a no strings uncomplicated relationship that won't get out of hand and that suits them, as it suits me.
As women, we are the first ones to start moaning if our partners don't put in enough "I love you" hugs, and compliments, yet how often do we consider how they feel when you have said for the 100th time in a month NO to sex. The women knock back their partners, "not tonight honey" on such a regular basis that it is bound to have an effect on his confidence and to rebuild it and feel that he is still desirable he seeks confirmation from me, and I, am happy to confirm my clients are all lovely, fantastic, attractive men that have a lot to offer this world, in and out of bed. My clients just want someone who says and means "tonight? yes please, can't wait, can't think of anything better than a glass of wine, a natter on the sofa and some great action with you!".
Some of my clients are single and just want to have some fun and good company, some are married, but by seeing me it is a safe outlet for them to be able to feel appreciated and wanted without any risk to the family and partner that they do love immensely and they would never want to lose but who just doesn't tick that one little box. Is it better that my clients are in and stay in a loving relationship which just has a minor flaw, or that they leave and ruin a very happy relationship in the pursuit of someone who ticks all the boxes? Lets be honest, no one ticks all the boxes for more than about 6 months, after that the ticks start fading, but other ticks get stronger.
When I tell people what I do (not very often) their first reaction is shock, but when you actually explain that not only do I make sure the client is happy but I too am happy and I come away saying to my escort buddy (security phone call) "that was a great night, I'd like to meet him again", they realise that its not the dirty, filthy secret that they imagine.
Don't get me wrong, there is a lot wrong with the sex trade, from underage, trafficking, drugs etc, but that is a bigger issue and you shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush, just as there are rogue lawyers, accountants, MP's, and builders, you don't assume just because you saw some plumber from "rogue traders" ripping off a customer that all plumbers are like that.
As with most discrimination and stereotyping and skewed thinking, it stems from a lack of knowledge, education and experience, so perhaps we should think about being a bit more open about sex, our sexual needs and sexuality, and we could all learn something from it. Perhaps you're reading this worrying your husband is seeing an escort, think about it, would it be all that bad? You don't want sex with him anyway so where's the harm? I'm happy to take one for the girls and it keeps him off your back (pardon the pun) so everyone is happy. Perhaps you do want to rekindle the sexual relationship with your partner, I can help there too (bu that is for another blog).
I'm here to tell you that is NOT the case. As a post graduate educated woman, who runs her own successful business full time and works as an escort part time to increase my dispensable income but also because I enjoy meeting new people and enjoy the physical aspect I can happily say that my clients are not perverts or desperate. In fact they are polite, professional, men from a variety of careers and backgrounds who are just looking for company of a woman who actually wants to be with them and enjoys spending time, attention and affection on them and vice versa.
In fact every time I meet either one of my regular clients or a new one for the first time it amazes me that they don't have a queue of women lining up for them and that they choose to spend time and money on me. Not only are my clients good talkers and listeners, but they are fantastic in bed and just want to please, what's not to like? I understand that I am a no strings uncomplicated relationship that won't get out of hand and that suits them, as it suits me.
As women, we are the first ones to start moaning if our partners don't put in enough "I love you" hugs, and compliments, yet how often do we consider how they feel when you have said for the 100th time in a month NO to sex. The women knock back their partners, "not tonight honey" on such a regular basis that it is bound to have an effect on his confidence and to rebuild it and feel that he is still desirable he seeks confirmation from me, and I, am happy to confirm my clients are all lovely, fantastic, attractive men that have a lot to offer this world, in and out of bed. My clients just want someone who says and means "tonight? yes please, can't wait, can't think of anything better than a glass of wine, a natter on the sofa and some great action with you!".
Some of my clients are single and just want to have some fun and good company, some are married, but by seeing me it is a safe outlet for them to be able to feel appreciated and wanted without any risk to the family and partner that they do love immensely and they would never want to lose but who just doesn't tick that one little box. Is it better that my clients are in and stay in a loving relationship which just has a minor flaw, or that they leave and ruin a very happy relationship in the pursuit of someone who ticks all the boxes? Lets be honest, no one ticks all the boxes for more than about 6 months, after that the ticks start fading, but other ticks get stronger.
When I tell people what I do (not very often) their first reaction is shock, but when you actually explain that not only do I make sure the client is happy but I too am happy and I come away saying to my escort buddy (security phone call) "that was a great night, I'd like to meet him again", they realise that its not the dirty, filthy secret that they imagine.
Don't get me wrong, there is a lot wrong with the sex trade, from underage, trafficking, drugs etc, but that is a bigger issue and you shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush, just as there are rogue lawyers, accountants, MP's, and builders, you don't assume just because you saw some plumber from "rogue traders" ripping off a customer that all plumbers are like that.
As with most discrimination and stereotyping and skewed thinking, it stems from a lack of knowledge, education and experience, so perhaps we should think about being a bit more open about sex, our sexual needs and sexuality, and we could all learn something from it. Perhaps you're reading this worrying your husband is seeing an escort, think about it, would it be all that bad? You don't want sex with him anyway so where's the harm? I'm happy to take one for the girls and it keeps him off your back (pardon the pun) so everyone is happy. Perhaps you do want to rekindle the sexual relationship with your partner, I can help there too (bu that is for another blog).
Friday, April 27, 2012
Violence and sex? Not for me
Er no, not for me. In fact mix sex with any form of pain, aggression, and I'm out of there. Sex for me should be for all parties involved: fun, yes, passionate, yes, fulfilling, yes, sensual, yes, mind blowing, yes, earth shattering, yes, toe curling, yes, uninhibited, yes, pleasurable, yes, ecstatic, yes, attentive, yes, energetic, yes, seductive, yes, rewarding, yes, and much much more but never ever with the aim of causing the other person pain, or hurt, or to make them uncomfortable with the situation.
It's not that I think that BDSM, humiliation is wrong, it's just not for me. I get turned on by pleasure and not pain and I definitely don't get turned on by by someone wanting to cause me pain. Some people do, and good luck to them, just don't come and see me if you get turned on by someone else suffering.
You're probably asking, where did this come from, why write about this?
On Saturday I had a client who I had seen before but just the once and I won't be seeing again. Why? well, firstly he asked for bareback, always a no no, and secondly he asked for anal ( on many occasions) Not on the menu, thirdly he ran over time not by ten minutes, but by 30 minutes. Which I wouldn't normally mind if we're just getting carried away and time flies, but this guy was clearly just stretching things out for as long as he could. My clients I'm sure would agree I'm anything but a clock watcher. It could be because I was uncomfortable and wasn't enjoying myself and that he just took it as red that he could go over and I wouldn't mind.
However the nail in the coffin was the aggression, I'm as passionate as they come and everyone gets carried away from time to time. I like my hair being pulled and my tits being sucked, and a bit of spanking is good too. BUT (I know I shouldn't start a sentence with a BUT) I left with my head hurting from where he had grabbed my hair and pulled and twisted it so hard that I couldn't move. Luckily he was only light and I pushed him off easily and told him to behave but the damage had been done. He also grabbed my breasts so hard that in the morning I had bruises. It wasn't passion, it was him knowingly hurting me and I hated that, I could see in his facial expression this wasn't him getting carried away but he actually looked to see my face in pain. I love giving head, I think there is no bigger compliment than a man coming in my mouth but I can't deep throat. I don't advertise it because I can't do it and neither do I want to. It makes me gag, and I don't want to vomit over someone, that's a real passion killer. I will take the cock as deep as I can, I enjoy giving head but he kept pushing his cock to the back of my throat so that I gagged time and time again, in conjunction with pulling my hair so hard I couldn't get away is just a huge no no. I'm no porn star and I don't get paid to be a piece of meat that you can do what you want with. At no point did I feel endandgered but I ertainly didn't have fun. Got to be honest, I left pretty upset and I'm looking forward to seeing some of my other clients again to show me that there are some true gentlemen out there who know how to have fun but also respect me as I do them.
Needless to say he has been informed that I won't be seeing him again. I only see clients who are on the same sexual wavelength as me. My Saturday night client just needs to find the woman who gets turned on from being hurt, humiliated and in pain, and that is NOT ME. It was stupid of me really, my gut instinct told me that he wasn't my sort of client and that I shouldn't have gone but I ignored it and thought I was just being silly. Lesson learned: listen to my gut instinct!!
Luckily for me I have no such doubts about my other clients. On the Friday before I met a most charming man, who I thoroughly enjoyed my time with and would love to see again. I like to think we had a mutually mind blowing time and I can't wait for him to book me again. Not only was the sex great but I could have chatted happily for a very long time.
On the Sunday I had a further booking. Before you say anything, yes I only do two clients a week, I did Friday and Saturday last week and a Sunday this week but because of Saturday have taken the rest of the week off. I was a bit anxious after Saturday night about meeting a new client but I shouldn't have worried, he was a true gentleman, the company and cuppa and conversation was great, followed by a gentle but satisfying intimate experience. Again this gentleman fits into the category of clients I'd like to see again.
So with all that said I have a quiet weekend ahead for a change, (unless of course one of my lovely clients gets in touch) and I just hope that all the men out there that use escorts make sure they think about whether the chosen person is into the same things as you are. If you want anal, go and book someone who advertises anal on the menu, not someone who clearly states: NO ANAL. If you want BDSM, humiliation, then go and find an escort that advertises those services. If you want a GFE don't book a dominatrix.
If you want a woman who clearly enjoys not just sex, but sex with you and loves giving oral, receiving oral, french kissing, all forms of foreplay and is as enthusiastic as they come, can have a conversation, doesn't embarass easily, is non judgmental, enjoys your company and thinks you are a great person to spend time with, then book me. I must admit I feel truly blessed that I have met such lovely gentlemen in my job and that they choose to spend their time and money with me. They are all special to me in their own way. I won't let one person stop me from enjoying my time with the others, that said I'd like to get back to my respectful gentlemen again.
Have fun and be safe x x
It's not that I think that BDSM, humiliation is wrong, it's just not for me. I get turned on by pleasure and not pain and I definitely don't get turned on by by someone wanting to cause me pain. Some people do, and good luck to them, just don't come and see me if you get turned on by someone else suffering.
You're probably asking, where did this come from, why write about this?
On Saturday I had a client who I had seen before but just the once and I won't be seeing again. Why? well, firstly he asked for bareback, always a no no, and secondly he asked for anal ( on many occasions) Not on the menu, thirdly he ran over time not by ten minutes, but by 30 minutes. Which I wouldn't normally mind if we're just getting carried away and time flies, but this guy was clearly just stretching things out for as long as he could. My clients I'm sure would agree I'm anything but a clock watcher. It could be because I was uncomfortable and wasn't enjoying myself and that he just took it as red that he could go over and I wouldn't mind.
However the nail in the coffin was the aggression, I'm as passionate as they come and everyone gets carried away from time to time. I like my hair being pulled and my tits being sucked, and a bit of spanking is good too. BUT (I know I shouldn't start a sentence with a BUT) I left with my head hurting from where he had grabbed my hair and pulled and twisted it so hard that I couldn't move. Luckily he was only light and I pushed him off easily and told him to behave but the damage had been done. He also grabbed my breasts so hard that in the morning I had bruises. It wasn't passion, it was him knowingly hurting me and I hated that, I could see in his facial expression this wasn't him getting carried away but he actually looked to see my face in pain. I love giving head, I think there is no bigger compliment than a man coming in my mouth but I can't deep throat. I don't advertise it because I can't do it and neither do I want to. It makes me gag, and I don't want to vomit over someone, that's a real passion killer. I will take the cock as deep as I can, I enjoy giving head but he kept pushing his cock to the back of my throat so that I gagged time and time again, in conjunction with pulling my hair so hard I couldn't get away is just a huge no no. I'm no porn star and I don't get paid to be a piece of meat that you can do what you want with. At no point did I feel endandgered but I ertainly didn't have fun. Got to be honest, I left pretty upset and I'm looking forward to seeing some of my other clients again to show me that there are some true gentlemen out there who know how to have fun but also respect me as I do them.
Needless to say he has been informed that I won't be seeing him again. I only see clients who are on the same sexual wavelength as me. My Saturday night client just needs to find the woman who gets turned on from being hurt, humiliated and in pain, and that is NOT ME. It was stupid of me really, my gut instinct told me that he wasn't my sort of client and that I shouldn't have gone but I ignored it and thought I was just being silly. Lesson learned: listen to my gut instinct!!
Luckily for me I have no such doubts about my other clients. On the Friday before I met a most charming man, who I thoroughly enjoyed my time with and would love to see again. I like to think we had a mutually mind blowing time and I can't wait for him to book me again. Not only was the sex great but I could have chatted happily for a very long time.
On the Sunday I had a further booking. Before you say anything, yes I only do two clients a week, I did Friday and Saturday last week and a Sunday this week but because of Saturday have taken the rest of the week off. I was a bit anxious after Saturday night about meeting a new client but I shouldn't have worried, he was a true gentleman, the company and cuppa and conversation was great, followed by a gentle but satisfying intimate experience. Again this gentleman fits into the category of clients I'd like to see again.
So with all that said I have a quiet weekend ahead for a change, (unless of course one of my lovely clients gets in touch) and I just hope that all the men out there that use escorts make sure they think about whether the chosen person is into the same things as you are. If you want anal, go and book someone who advertises anal on the menu, not someone who clearly states: NO ANAL. If you want BDSM, humiliation, then go and find an escort that advertises those services. If you want a GFE don't book a dominatrix.
If you want a woman who clearly enjoys not just sex, but sex with you and loves giving oral, receiving oral, french kissing, all forms of foreplay and is as enthusiastic as they come, can have a conversation, doesn't embarass easily, is non judgmental, enjoys your company and thinks you are a great person to spend time with, then book me. I must admit I feel truly blessed that I have met such lovely gentlemen in my job and that they choose to spend their time and money with me. They are all special to me in their own way. I won't let one person stop me from enjoying my time with the others, that said I'd like to get back to my respectful gentlemen again.
Have fun and be safe x x
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Specialities, and what makes a prat a prat
Been a manically busy and tiring week, I have been working my big booty off (not in my escort job, and not that big, but not that small either), in my daytime profession. Business has suddenly got very busy and there just aren't enough hours in the day to do everything. I've had no escort clients this week which is a good thing as I didn't have time for them anyway and now I'm extremely horny just in time for my weekend meetings. I am hugely looking forward to tomorrows meeting with a new client who seems like a gem. I've worked extra late tonight so that I can go and get my nails done tomorrow before my meeting, and make sure I am all beauitfully presented for him. A morning of pampering before an afternoon of action. Life doesn't get much more perfect than that.
I've had interest from some really lovely clients recently and I'm looking forward to meeting them, so much so they make me smile just by confirming the booking, even if it is a few weeks away. not sure if you read my blog but just thought you should know I was really miserable today until I got an email from you which put a huge smile on my face and since then have felt much better, so thank you, and I'll treasure the image of face masks and hair nets forever.
Clients that happily give me their name and address, are happy to have a normal conversation over the phone or by email and make a booking are my favourites.
Specialities
Some clients ask me what my speciality is?
My genuine enjoyment of the meeting and of the company. I don't think many women enjoy the physical aspect as much as I do, and there's no faking it. My speciality is that I'm pleased to be with you and I'm very good at making us both feel great. I only see clients that are on the same wavelength as me. I orgasm easily, I squirt (if desired and with the right work), I enjoy giving oral pleasure and therefore I'm pretty good at it, I enjoy giving pleasure in general, I enjoy receiving. I enjoy being able to make someone feel special. I'm easy going and don't embarass easily, I don't judge and will make you feel comfortable very quickly. I think if my clients could speak they would say that it was my openness, honesty and enthusiasm which they liked. I'm definitely a real woman, curvy in the right places and just oozing sensuality, aimed soley at my clients. I'm affectionate and loving, and don't clock watch. I like to think I'm a bit of a head turner when dressed up, so if you are looking for a real woman to make an impact on your arm and in your bed then I'm for you.
I'll happily go along with the majority of requests as long as it stays within my rules and it makes you happy. It is easier if I get the requests before I arrive so that I can prepare if needed. I'm happy to french kiss, as I think this is an important part in being intimate.
My downsides: I can't deep throat, sorry, I've tried and it's not a pretty site and I find it a bit odd that a man gets off on a woman gagging on his cock. But hey, if it comes naturally to a woman (which to a few it does) then kudos to them, I'm really quite jealous of your talents, let me know who you are so I can recommend you to my clients who want to experience it.
I'm no pornstar, yes, I enjoy myself and can give you the best come to bed eyes, I like to look into your face as I suck on your cock and I'm noisy when having fun but none of it is for the sake of it, it's what comes naturally. I don't do anal. Anal involves a bit too much trust and size does matter so I keep it simple and just say NO.
Apologies for being too busy to answer my phone
Got to make apologies now, I've had a lot of phone calls during this week which unfortunately I just haven't been able to answer as I've had my hands full with my full time job. If this is you then please leave a message, or send me a text and I will call you/ text you back as soon as it is possible. If I call you, I will let it ring once and then put it down so that you know I can take calls but wouldn't want to leave it ringing just incase someone picks it up who shouldn't.
PRATS
For every one of my clients who I am very fond of and enjoy their company very much there are ten prats, who thankfully I have never had the misfortune in meeting. Why? I've been lucky, I'm super picky when it comes to who I see, I have only a few clients and I don't need the money desperately enough to see someone I wasn't 100% sure with and finally because most of the time you can sense them a mile away. What makes a prat a prat?
I have to put my phone on silent every night as some idiots think it is reasonable to call several times at 3am and 4am. Not that I answer the phone, I don't, I wake up enough to put their number into my block list so that I never have to deal with them again. For anyone that knows anything about this industry they will know that reputable women will NEVER aswer an unknown/witheld number. If you trust me enough to get intimate with me then you should trust me enough to provide a telephone number, and if you don't then I'm just not interested. Note to self: need to get myself a blackberry for this business so I can get a proper app which I can block unknown numbers and callers who I don't wish to work with.
Weekend
So a fun day tomorrow where I get to spend some much needed time on me and on someone else, can't wait, I've got a week of frustration built up so Mr Y you better watch out as I'm in the mood for some fun. See you tomorrow, which is now today, so I better go to bed and get my beauty sleep for you. x x
Saturday evening I have a lovely returning client who I had an absolutely fantastic drink and some high quality private time with and can't wait to see him again. So all in all a great weekend planned, followed by probably cooking a Sunday dinner for friends and some much needed R&R.
I am currently free next weekend, 27th and 28th April, plus other days in the week, so if you would like some company please get in touch via email: xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com, or phone 07507738323 and speak to me, Taylor, or go through adultwork and contact me via them "Taylor Personal"
Have fun, be safe and think about all the mischief we could get up to. x x
I've had interest from some really lovely clients recently and I'm looking forward to meeting them, so much so they make me smile just by confirming the booking, even if it is a few weeks away. not sure if you read my blog but just thought you should know I was really miserable today until I got an email from you which put a huge smile on my face and since then have felt much better, so thank you, and I'll treasure the image of face masks and hair nets forever.
Clients that happily give me their name and address, are happy to have a normal conversation over the phone or by email and make a booking are my favourites.
Specialities
Some clients ask me what my speciality is?
My genuine enjoyment of the meeting and of the company. I don't think many women enjoy the physical aspect as much as I do, and there's no faking it. My speciality is that I'm pleased to be with you and I'm very good at making us both feel great. I only see clients that are on the same wavelength as me. I orgasm easily, I squirt (if desired and with the right work), I enjoy giving oral pleasure and therefore I'm pretty good at it, I enjoy giving pleasure in general, I enjoy receiving. I enjoy being able to make someone feel special. I'm easy going and don't embarass easily, I don't judge and will make you feel comfortable very quickly. I think if my clients could speak they would say that it was my openness, honesty and enthusiasm which they liked. I'm definitely a real woman, curvy in the right places and just oozing sensuality, aimed soley at my clients. I'm affectionate and loving, and don't clock watch. I like to think I'm a bit of a head turner when dressed up, so if you are looking for a real woman to make an impact on your arm and in your bed then I'm for you.
I'll happily go along with the majority of requests as long as it stays within my rules and it makes you happy. It is easier if I get the requests before I arrive so that I can prepare if needed. I'm happy to french kiss, as I think this is an important part in being intimate.
My downsides: I can't deep throat, sorry, I've tried and it's not a pretty site and I find it a bit odd that a man gets off on a woman gagging on his cock. But hey, if it comes naturally to a woman (which to a few it does) then kudos to them, I'm really quite jealous of your talents, let me know who you are so I can recommend you to my clients who want to experience it.
I'm no pornstar, yes, I enjoy myself and can give you the best come to bed eyes, I like to look into your face as I suck on your cock and I'm noisy when having fun but none of it is for the sake of it, it's what comes naturally. I don't do anal. Anal involves a bit too much trust and size does matter so I keep it simple and just say NO.
Apologies for being too busy to answer my phone
Got to make apologies now, I've had a lot of phone calls during this week which unfortunately I just haven't been able to answer as I've had my hands full with my full time job. If this is you then please leave a message, or send me a text and I will call you/ text you back as soon as it is possible. If I call you, I will let it ring once and then put it down so that you know I can take calls but wouldn't want to leave it ringing just incase someone picks it up who shouldn't.
PRATS
For every one of my clients who I am very fond of and enjoy their company very much there are ten prats, who thankfully I have never had the misfortune in meeting. Why? I've been lucky, I'm super picky when it comes to who I see, I have only a few clients and I don't need the money desperately enough to see someone I wasn't 100% sure with and finally because most of the time you can sense them a mile away. What makes a prat a prat?
- Calling at 3am, infact after 11pm is just plain rude and inconsiderate
- Calling from a with held number
- Texting "r u available now?" at 2am
- Starting a text with "hey Baby"
- Asking about bareback: NO NO NO
- Asking if I do 30 minute meetings: NO NO NO
- Asking if I do 1 hour meetings: NO NO NO
- Asking if I will change my rates: Yes, of course honey, they just doubled for you x
- Suggesting a booking but never confirming
- Living in fantasy land, i.e I'm just getting back from a house buying trip to blah blah blah, and I've just bought the new mercedes maclaren, would you like to go for a spin with me?
I have to put my phone on silent every night as some idiots think it is reasonable to call several times at 3am and 4am. Not that I answer the phone, I don't, I wake up enough to put their number into my block list so that I never have to deal with them again. For anyone that knows anything about this industry they will know that reputable women will NEVER aswer an unknown/witheld number. If you trust me enough to get intimate with me then you should trust me enough to provide a telephone number, and if you don't then I'm just not interested. Note to self: need to get myself a blackberry for this business so I can get a proper app which I can block unknown numbers and callers who I don't wish to work with.
Weekend
So a fun day tomorrow where I get to spend some much needed time on me and on someone else, can't wait, I've got a week of frustration built up so Mr Y you better watch out as I'm in the mood for some fun. See you tomorrow, which is now today, so I better go to bed and get my beauty sleep for you. x x
Saturday evening I have a lovely returning client who I had an absolutely fantastic drink and some high quality private time with and can't wait to see him again. So all in all a great weekend planned, followed by probably cooking a Sunday dinner for friends and some much needed R&R.
I am currently free next weekend, 27th and 28th April, plus other days in the week, so if you would like some company please get in touch via email: xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com, or phone 07507738323 and speak to me, Taylor, or go through adultwork and contact me via them "Taylor Personal"
Have fun, be safe and think about all the mischief we could get up to. x x
Friday, April 13, 2012
Squirting
Firstly, forgot to mention in my last post regarding handbag contents two essentials, a bottle of water (thirsty work) and a hair band (so I can tie my hair up when giving head so I can look in your eyes.
Today I caught a train to meet my client in my killer stilehettos, short skirt, diamante and seamed black stockings, and a very revealing top that showed my red basque; the lovely Grandma's almost had heart attacks but I quite enjoyed the attention.
Ok, so on to the topic of this blog, it's a bit naughtier than my standard blog but I've just had a great session with a client, and don't feel like returning to my normal work so instead I'll write about what I've been doing today. Yes, you guessed it, squirting.
So this for those of you who don't know, squirting is female ejaculation, it's not wee, it doesn't have the wee smell or colour, so it is clear and can sometimes have a vanilla essence to it. It happens when a woman is really turned on and doesn't have inhibitions. Today, I met a new client for a first time and he liked to play with me and toys. I orgasm easily anyway but he was a magic with a toy and I just couldn't help myself. Luckily he liked squirting, (it's not for everyone, some men who have never experienced can freak out thinking the woman has wee'd on the bed, this isn't the case). In the end after countless orgasms and squirts I had to say enough was enough because I was just soooo sensitive down there, plus my rabbit is a pretty strong toy that doesn't seem to have a gentle mode. It was nice to lie in my own damp patch for a change : )
There are some tips as to how to make a woman squirt, I find it easier after half a glass of wine, and if I've had a lot to drink, tea, coffee, water, it doesn't matter what. Obviously it helps to know what you are doing but if you don't have a toy (which personally works for me) and you want to do it manually the best way to describe the action is to pretend that you are trying to find the end of one of those toilet rolls in public toilets, you know the big round ones when you can never find the end and you have to reach in and spin it all the way round just to try and find the beginning. So you do the toilet roll "come hither" motion, imagine you are trying to spin that toilet roll around quickly and just keep going, you should be able to feel like a little nubin swelling inside her pussy and as she gets more turned on the more it will swell. I have found that the longer the build up, the greater the amount of liquid, but to get her to squirt she has to basically let go, it will feel like she needs to wee, but equally as if she is about to orgasm, (which she is), at this point she should push down and clench and voila, you have made her gush. Be careful, her bits may be extremely sensitive for a few minutes after you have done this so go gently. Hopefully if you have your face down there then you will either have a mouthful or drowned, or perhaps you prefer to watch the action from a safe distance, either way be prepared for an egg cup full or a pint. If you want to make her squirt then it may be worth putting down some towels first as it can get really wet, on the other hand once it dries it doesn't leave a smell so it's not a big issue.
So whether you do this with me or experiment on someone else have fun trying and enjoy yourselves.
Enjoy the weekend, and remember if you want me, to call 07507738323, or email xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com, look at my feedback on adultwork, my profile is taylor personal and remember to use condoms, book ahead, and don't ask for 30 minute or one hour appointments, if you want a quickie, there are much cheaper options out there and you're not my type of client.
Today I caught a train to meet my client in my killer stilehettos, short skirt, diamante and seamed black stockings, and a very revealing top that showed my red basque; the lovely Grandma's almost had heart attacks but I quite enjoyed the attention.
Ok, so on to the topic of this blog, it's a bit naughtier than my standard blog but I've just had a great session with a client, and don't feel like returning to my normal work so instead I'll write about what I've been doing today. Yes, you guessed it, squirting.
So this for those of you who don't know, squirting is female ejaculation, it's not wee, it doesn't have the wee smell or colour, so it is clear and can sometimes have a vanilla essence to it. It happens when a woman is really turned on and doesn't have inhibitions. Today, I met a new client for a first time and he liked to play with me and toys. I orgasm easily anyway but he was a magic with a toy and I just couldn't help myself. Luckily he liked squirting, (it's not for everyone, some men who have never experienced can freak out thinking the woman has wee'd on the bed, this isn't the case). In the end after countless orgasms and squirts I had to say enough was enough because I was just soooo sensitive down there, plus my rabbit is a pretty strong toy that doesn't seem to have a gentle mode. It was nice to lie in my own damp patch for a change : )
There are some tips as to how to make a woman squirt, I find it easier after half a glass of wine, and if I've had a lot to drink, tea, coffee, water, it doesn't matter what. Obviously it helps to know what you are doing but if you don't have a toy (which personally works for me) and you want to do it manually the best way to describe the action is to pretend that you are trying to find the end of one of those toilet rolls in public toilets, you know the big round ones when you can never find the end and you have to reach in and spin it all the way round just to try and find the beginning. So you do the toilet roll "come hither" motion, imagine you are trying to spin that toilet roll around quickly and just keep going, you should be able to feel like a little nubin swelling inside her pussy and as she gets more turned on the more it will swell. I have found that the longer the build up, the greater the amount of liquid, but to get her to squirt she has to basically let go, it will feel like she needs to wee, but equally as if she is about to orgasm, (which she is), at this point she should push down and clench and voila, you have made her gush. Be careful, her bits may be extremely sensitive for a few minutes after you have done this so go gently. Hopefully if you have your face down there then you will either have a mouthful or drowned, or perhaps you prefer to watch the action from a safe distance, either way be prepared for an egg cup full or a pint. If you want to make her squirt then it may be worth putting down some towels first as it can get really wet, on the other hand once it dries it doesn't leave a smell so it's not a big issue.
So whether you do this with me or experiment on someone else have fun trying and enjoy yourselves.
Enjoy the weekend, and remember if you want me, to call 07507738323, or email xceptionallypersonal@gmail.com, look at my feedback on adultwork, my profile is taylor personal and remember to use condoms, book ahead, and don't ask for 30 minute or one hour appointments, if you want a quickie, there are much cheaper options out there and you're not my type of client.
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Chocolate and rabbits and handbag contents
Easter is every woman's dream. Mixing two of my most favourite things in the world: chocolate and rabbits, and on this occasion I'm not talking about the cute and cuddly kind. The rabbit I talk about has two ears but has a distinctive buzz to it and is usually made out of plastic/ rubber type material. In fact to celebrate Easter I splashed out and bought myself a new silicone rabbit, it is neon pink and puts a smile on my face. (WOW) Ideally used by myself or as part of a private session. (It is part of my handbag contents when making out calls).
Oooh, what else is part of my handbag for outcalls, honestly, you want to know???
1) An assortment of condoms, from natural, to flavoured, including chocolate, blueberry and banana. I always carry lots as you never know how many you'll get through and I can't think of anything worse than the fun being limited due to stocks running out
2) Lubrication jelly: always useful (no this does not mean that I do A-Levels!)
3) A couple of scarves, handy for any gentlemen that like tie and tease, I do it to you, not the other way around. Perhaps also used as a blindfold if you wish.
4) A pair of handcuffs, again, I can use on you and not vice versa.
5) As mentioned previously my beloved rabbit
6) My toothbrush and toothpaste, I'm a lady that values oral hygiene and nothing tastes better than a minty mouth, other than a freshly showered clean cock of course
7) My work phone, used for making a call to my security friend to let her know I have arrived and met with my companion, all is fine and when she should expect to get the next call. I then call again once I have left and I'm returning home.
8) Makeup, for post session touch ups (apologies to one of my clients, I didn't apply my smear proof lipstick and it could have been very messy, lesson learned, only my blow job proof lipstick from now on.
9) Baby oil, great for massages and getting messy, although have to be careful and make sure it is not in contact with the beloved condom.
10) Baby wipes, an essential product for everyone
11) A spare change of underwear and stockings, ladies with ladders are not attractive, and just in case you want to make a mess of my underwear I like to have something to go home in that is clean.
and anything else my client may have requested.
Oooh, what else is part of my handbag for outcalls, honestly, you want to know???
1) An assortment of condoms, from natural, to flavoured, including chocolate, blueberry and banana. I always carry lots as you never know how many you'll get through and I can't think of anything worse than the fun being limited due to stocks running out
2) Lubrication jelly: always useful (no this does not mean that I do A-Levels!)
3) A couple of scarves, handy for any gentlemen that like tie and tease, I do it to you, not the other way around. Perhaps also used as a blindfold if you wish.
4) A pair of handcuffs, again, I can use on you and not vice versa.
5) As mentioned previously my beloved rabbit
6) My toothbrush and toothpaste, I'm a lady that values oral hygiene and nothing tastes better than a minty mouth, other than a freshly showered clean cock of course
7) My work phone, used for making a call to my security friend to let her know I have arrived and met with my companion, all is fine and when she should expect to get the next call. I then call again once I have left and I'm returning home.
8) Makeup, for post session touch ups (apologies to one of my clients, I didn't apply my smear proof lipstick and it could have been very messy, lesson learned, only my blow job proof lipstick from now on.
9) Baby oil, great for massages and getting messy, although have to be careful and make sure it is not in contact with the beloved condom.
10) Baby wipes, an essential product for everyone
11) A spare change of underwear and stockings, ladies with ladders are not attractive, and just in case you want to make a mess of my underwear I like to have something to go home in that is clean.
and anything else my client may have requested.
Monday, April 2, 2012
variety is the spice of life
Evening all, I'm sure you haven' missed my blogs, but thought it was probably about time I added another. I've been manically busy with my full time job and my normal life and my escort life. I've had to turn away many of you because of my one client per day and only about 2 clients per week rule, so apologies, you just have to make sure you book in sooner as I love meeting new people. I am now getting into the swing of things being an independent escort and must say a thank you to Elite courtesans who were very helpful, I think if I was a man who wanted to use an agency escort I'd definitely go there as they seem very genuine and have the best interests of their clients and girls at heart.
Anyhow, I love that my clients vary so much and that as an independent I can pick and choose. I am really looking forward to my two clients this week as they are both mature gentlemen whom I haven't yet met but from the sound of the communication we have had so far I think we will have a very stimulating time.
Some of my clients have a checklist that they want, which is absolutely fair enough, they are paying for my company and it is my job to make sure that the time spent together is as satisfying as possible so if they do have a wish list it is great to know about it before hand. Thus why my "one client a day" rule helps, I can prepare myself for that one client, and one client only. Putting on my underwear, styling my hair, completing my make up, all knowing that I am making up a package that will make my client happy. I really enjoy the preparation time as well. These clients tend to be more about the physical aspect, which is fine by me but I do always worry I might not meet their expectations. My last client did comment that I looked so much better in person than in the photo's, which I don't think is true, but it was a lovely compliment nether the less.
On the other hand I also love the really laid back client who doesn't have any requests other than obviously being the person in the photos. I will always be smart and sexy, underwear will always be matching but it gives it a little bit of excitement not knowing what floats their boat. They tend to be looking for more about the connection, the girlfriend experience which I absolutely love.
One client wanted to check my build, honesty is my policy and I replied very truthfully that if someone is looking for a schoolgirl type, that is not me, but if you are looking for a woman with a generous bum and curves, hourglass figure but not a bbw, then I am for you. I am not, and never will be skinny, neither will I be slim, I am shapely, womanly and more like a girlfriend than a glamour model. I have a few bumpy bits, and I'm not just talking about my 34DD breasts, but I am fit, healthy with a love for sex, life, men, passion and food and I'm happy with my body and a big believer that no matter what size or shape you are you should be happy and proud of your body! (women love men with a few more pounds than they would ideally like, perhaps call it carrying a bit of condition, makes us feel a lot less insecure). I do believe as well though that if your body is putting your health at risk by being too thin or too fat then perhaps it is time to have a look at your life and see whether it isn't time to address some of those internal issues that are showing themselves externally. (Bit deep for an escorts blog, but I do have a degree in psychology and am pasionate about body image, and the connection that our body and appearance has on our mental state and vice versa)
One client asked me what would I do if I met a client who really didn't float my boat. Honestly, I think 99% of men have really good qualities that if not obvious to the naked eye at first, can quickly be identified over a glass of wine and a conversation. However on the off chance I do meet a client, who lets say is unclean, or really not my type at all, then I would be polite, explain that it won't work between us and that it would be unfair of me to take any payment for time as I wouldn't be able to provide the level of service he was looking for.
I would also expect that if I met with a client and he didn't feel that he was well matched with me (never happened, but lets just say), then I would much prefer him to be honest with me at the start, reimburse my travel costs and we'd agree to go our own ways. I truly believe that the escort business, (or at least the escort business I am in) is about meeting with clients with whom you can connect and who you are able to make them feel much better after the meeting than before, and you shouldn't go ahead with the meeting if you don't think you will be able to fufil this basic criteria. Again, for the clients I think you have the right to cancel your meeting if you don't think that the person is going to be able to achieve this criteria for you. This is not to say I endorse time wasters, trust me I truly don't, but the profession of being an escort is that we are naturally able at putting people at ease quickly and being able to connect closely and comfortably with a wide variety of clients so lets be honest, if we are any good at our job it should be very rare that any client says I don't think you are for me.
So with that in mind, I'm hoping for some really good meets this week, remember if you want me to book in advance, and to be proud of your body and your sexuality.
Anyhow, I love that my clients vary so much and that as an independent I can pick and choose. I am really looking forward to my two clients this week as they are both mature gentlemen whom I haven't yet met but from the sound of the communication we have had so far I think we will have a very stimulating time.
Some of my clients have a checklist that they want, which is absolutely fair enough, they are paying for my company and it is my job to make sure that the time spent together is as satisfying as possible so if they do have a wish list it is great to know about it before hand. Thus why my "one client a day" rule helps, I can prepare myself for that one client, and one client only. Putting on my underwear, styling my hair, completing my make up, all knowing that I am making up a package that will make my client happy. I really enjoy the preparation time as well. These clients tend to be more about the physical aspect, which is fine by me but I do always worry I might not meet their expectations. My last client did comment that I looked so much better in person than in the photo's, which I don't think is true, but it was a lovely compliment nether the less.
On the other hand I also love the really laid back client who doesn't have any requests other than obviously being the person in the photos. I will always be smart and sexy, underwear will always be matching but it gives it a little bit of excitement not knowing what floats their boat. They tend to be looking for more about the connection, the girlfriend experience which I absolutely love.
One client wanted to check my build, honesty is my policy and I replied very truthfully that if someone is looking for a schoolgirl type, that is not me, but if you are looking for a woman with a generous bum and curves, hourglass figure but not a bbw, then I am for you. I am not, and never will be skinny, neither will I be slim, I am shapely, womanly and more like a girlfriend than a glamour model. I have a few bumpy bits, and I'm not just talking about my 34DD breasts, but I am fit, healthy with a love for sex, life, men, passion and food and I'm happy with my body and a big believer that no matter what size or shape you are you should be happy and proud of your body! (women love men with a few more pounds than they would ideally like, perhaps call it carrying a bit of condition, makes us feel a lot less insecure). I do believe as well though that if your body is putting your health at risk by being too thin or too fat then perhaps it is time to have a look at your life and see whether it isn't time to address some of those internal issues that are showing themselves externally. (Bit deep for an escorts blog, but I do have a degree in psychology and am pasionate about body image, and the connection that our body and appearance has on our mental state and vice versa)
One client asked me what would I do if I met a client who really didn't float my boat. Honestly, I think 99% of men have really good qualities that if not obvious to the naked eye at first, can quickly be identified over a glass of wine and a conversation. However on the off chance I do meet a client, who lets say is unclean, or really not my type at all, then I would be polite, explain that it won't work between us and that it would be unfair of me to take any payment for time as I wouldn't be able to provide the level of service he was looking for.
I would also expect that if I met with a client and he didn't feel that he was well matched with me (never happened, but lets just say), then I would much prefer him to be honest with me at the start, reimburse my travel costs and we'd agree to go our own ways. I truly believe that the escort business, (or at least the escort business I am in) is about meeting with clients with whom you can connect and who you are able to make them feel much better after the meeting than before, and you shouldn't go ahead with the meeting if you don't think you will be able to fufil this basic criteria. Again, for the clients I think you have the right to cancel your meeting if you don't think that the person is going to be able to achieve this criteria for you. This is not to say I endorse time wasters, trust me I truly don't, but the profession of being an escort is that we are naturally able at putting people at ease quickly and being able to connect closely and comfortably with a wide variety of clients so lets be honest, if we are any good at our job it should be very rare that any client says I don't think you are for me.
So with that in mind, I'm hoping for some really good meets this week, remember if you want me to book in advance, and to be proud of your body and your sexuality.
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
GUM MOT: thumbs up: Fun weekend ahead
Mad, manic, running around week this week. Holding down running my own business as well as being an escort is hard work but fun. So far this week I have been travelling around the south of England and London meeting clients for my normal business, and that has been manic and a lot of fun. One client was very strange and although he was English he might have been speaking swahili for all the sense he made. Its very hard to write proposal documents for things that have not been clarified and when you ask for clarification he explains it so it is clear as mud. Now don't get me wrong, I am by no means Stephen Hawkins, but at the same time I like to think I am reasonably intelligent and have a strong business mind on me. How this person is successful in business I have no idea, but I'll try to speak with him tomorrow to see if I can actually understand what it is that he aims to do and how I can help him. It would be nice if he just answered a question that I asked instead of rambling off on a tangent (perhaps he was a politician in a previous life).
Anyhow, sorry, you don't read this to find out about my normal life, which although I love that job too, I'll be honest it isn't as stimulating as my escort work. My little book of dates is filling up nicely with really lovely great gentlemen and I am really looking forward to meeting them. Unfortunately due to my policy of only one client per day and only two clients per week means I'm having to turn away clients that sound absolutely lovely. So I'm sorry if you're one of them, I really do want to see you but to ensure the service that I give we'll have to try to meet another time, so stay in touch.
On another note, this joker from London, whom I have never met and never will (where I was earlier this week on normal work) has asked to arrange to see me twice now, both times at very short notice, which my regular clients, and blog readers know isn't my thing, and both times I have said not possible, and then he has the cheek to question my rates! Not just once, but Twice!!!!! "That's quite a bit more expensive than the standard round here" joker said, to which I replied "if you want standard why are you calling me?", he then has said TWICE, "oh no, it's fine, can we meet at XYZ" my response was "I'm busy, with clients who don't want standard and who show respect". As I keep saying, I like to really show my clients affection, a good time, make them feel good about themselves, and truly, there isn't enough money in the world that would make me want to make that joker feel special, especially when I don't have enough time to spend on my lovely clients who I adore to spend time with.
So as is usual I took my 12 weekly trip to the GUM clinic for what I like to call my MOT, not that I ever suspect anything is wrong, my clients are always covered and safety comes first and since I only have two clients a week (which is less than some women who go out weekly on the pull) there is never anything to worry about. I still believe though that as a person who does have multiple partners it is my responsibility to get MOT'd on a regular basis, and since I have once again been given the thumbs up which makes me feel a bit like when I used to get gold stars at school. I smile to myself and know that all is well and I am looking after myself and my clients.
I go to the GUM clinic in Swindon at the hospital just off the motorway, which I must say is lovely. Clean, welcoming, friendly and non judgmental. I am a firm believer that if you are a person who has sex with multiple people then you should get checked out at least every six months. There is no shame, it is a big selling point for me if my clients get themselves checked out. Men, it is no longer an umbrella up your wee hole, it really is pain free (apparently, or so Dr Christian says on the telly), go along, get yourself checked over, if not for your sake, then for mine, or for your long term partners. You've got nothing to lose and imagine how proud you'll feel getting the all clear each time. Doesn' t get much more attractive than that : )
So I'm off to bed now, I need my beauty sleep, I hope you've all enjoyed the sunshine, I know I have and it makes everyone that little bit more frisky, and it means I can get away with wearing even less clothing than usual, yippee.
Anyhow, sorry, you don't read this to find out about my normal life, which although I love that job too, I'll be honest it isn't as stimulating as my escort work. My little book of dates is filling up nicely with really lovely great gentlemen and I am really looking forward to meeting them. Unfortunately due to my policy of only one client per day and only two clients per week means I'm having to turn away clients that sound absolutely lovely. So I'm sorry if you're one of them, I really do want to see you but to ensure the service that I give we'll have to try to meet another time, so stay in touch.
On another note, this joker from London, whom I have never met and never will (where I was earlier this week on normal work) has asked to arrange to see me twice now, both times at very short notice, which my regular clients, and blog readers know isn't my thing, and both times I have said not possible, and then he has the cheek to question my rates! Not just once, but Twice!!!!! "That's quite a bit more expensive than the standard round here" joker said, to which I replied "if you want standard why are you calling me?", he then has said TWICE, "oh no, it's fine, can we meet at XYZ" my response was "I'm busy, with clients who don't want standard and who show respect". As I keep saying, I like to really show my clients affection, a good time, make them feel good about themselves, and truly, there isn't enough money in the world that would make me want to make that joker feel special, especially when I don't have enough time to spend on my lovely clients who I adore to spend time with.
So as is usual I took my 12 weekly trip to the GUM clinic for what I like to call my MOT, not that I ever suspect anything is wrong, my clients are always covered and safety comes first and since I only have two clients a week (which is less than some women who go out weekly on the pull) there is never anything to worry about. I still believe though that as a person who does have multiple partners it is my responsibility to get MOT'd on a regular basis, and since I have once again been given the thumbs up which makes me feel a bit like when I used to get gold stars at school. I smile to myself and know that all is well and I am looking after myself and my clients.
I go to the GUM clinic in Swindon at the hospital just off the motorway, which I must say is lovely. Clean, welcoming, friendly and non judgmental. I am a firm believer that if you are a person who has sex with multiple people then you should get checked out at least every six months. There is no shame, it is a big selling point for me if my clients get themselves checked out. Men, it is no longer an umbrella up your wee hole, it really is pain free (apparently, or so Dr Christian says on the telly), go along, get yourself checked over, if not for your sake, then for mine, or for your long term partners. You've got nothing to lose and imagine how proud you'll feel getting the all clear each time. Doesn' t get much more attractive than that : )
So I'm off to bed now, I need my beauty sleep, I hope you've all enjoyed the sunshine, I know I have and it makes everyone that little bit more frisky, and it means I can get away with wearing even less clothing than usual, yippee.
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
what I like about my clients and what they like about me
OK, so you'll be pleased to know I'm in a much better mood so thought it only right that I write something positive for a change so here goes:
Why I love my clients whether it is a first meeting or a not:
They book in advance:
1) I have days of excitement leading up to meet with them. The thought of meeting them enters my head regularly and makes me smile.
2) I can plan what outfit I'm going to wear for them and make sure that it is the right one that suits their needs the most
3) I can make sure I am well rested and have mentally gone through all the possible things I could do to them and them to me.
They are always well dressed (at the start anyway : ), they know I find men just out of the shower a huge turn on so they make sure they're always clean and it makes me just want to eat them alive.
They don't need to be reminded to use condoms, they know it's best for them and me.
They make sure we get the payment done straight away as it leaves us free to focus on each other.
I don't mind whether they are shy, confident, know what they want, don't know what they want as long as they show me respect, the fun bit is getting to know them and how to give them the best experience possible. If they need guidance, I can do that, if they want me to follow their lead I'm happy with that.
I do like it when a man gives me instructions about what they like, or feedback about what feels good to them. I am very happy with my body and comfortable with sex so perfect for teaching. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes and yes, everyone has preferences but no one is perfect and big, little, fat, thin we should all be made to feel like we are sexy, if we believe it then we feel it and I like to think my clients feel very sexy: why do they feel sexy?? Because they are, every single one of them. It's the glint in the eye, the sparkle, the dirty thoughts about what it would be like to lift up your dress and have you over the bar, or as we're going up in the lift thinking about if we could press the stop button. My clients know that if they are thinking about sex, they can be assured that I am too.
My clients give me that look over a drink that says "I want you" and that makes me really horny. I love knowing that my clients want me sexually and enjoy my company.
My clients know that they can tell me anything and I won't judge them and it will always stay between us and go no further.
I do love to tease, I'd even go to say I was an expert, but that's a whole other blog.
Last one, as I only have a maximum of 2 clients per week then they are guaranteed that I will be up for fun, it's never a chore for me, my clients are special to me and I like to treat them like the kings they are. Someone asked me via email why my charges are higher than others, if you want a £60 good time then fine, but I'm not for you. If you want to be made to feel special, wanted and worshipped then I'm you woman, and I don't need to act, I just want you, no strings attached top quality playful, energetic, arousing fun with a good man and a hot woman.
Why I love my clients whether it is a first meeting or a not:
They book in advance:
1) I have days of excitement leading up to meet with them. The thought of meeting them enters my head regularly and makes me smile.
2) I can plan what outfit I'm going to wear for them and make sure that it is the right one that suits their needs the most
3) I can make sure I am well rested and have mentally gone through all the possible things I could do to them and them to me.
They are always well dressed (at the start anyway : ), they know I find men just out of the shower a huge turn on so they make sure they're always clean and it makes me just want to eat them alive.
They don't need to be reminded to use condoms, they know it's best for them and me.
They make sure we get the payment done straight away as it leaves us free to focus on each other.
I don't mind whether they are shy, confident, know what they want, don't know what they want as long as they show me respect, the fun bit is getting to know them and how to give them the best experience possible. If they need guidance, I can do that, if they want me to follow their lead I'm happy with that.
I do like it when a man gives me instructions about what they like, or feedback about what feels good to them. I am very happy with my body and comfortable with sex so perfect for teaching. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes and yes, everyone has preferences but no one is perfect and big, little, fat, thin we should all be made to feel like we are sexy, if we believe it then we feel it and I like to think my clients feel very sexy: why do they feel sexy?? Because they are, every single one of them. It's the glint in the eye, the sparkle, the dirty thoughts about what it would be like to lift up your dress and have you over the bar, or as we're going up in the lift thinking about if we could press the stop button. My clients know that if they are thinking about sex, they can be assured that I am too.
My clients give me that look over a drink that says "I want you" and that makes me really horny. I love knowing that my clients want me sexually and enjoy my company.
My clients know that they can tell me anything and I won't judge them and it will always stay between us and go no further.
I do love to tease, I'd even go to say I was an expert, but that's a whole other blog.
Last one, as I only have a maximum of 2 clients per week then they are guaranteed that I will be up for fun, it's never a chore for me, my clients are special to me and I like to treat them like the kings they are. Someone asked me via email why my charges are higher than others, if you want a £60 good time then fine, but I'm not for you. If you want to be made to feel special, wanted and worshipped then I'm you woman, and I don't need to act, I just want you, no strings attached top quality playful, energetic, arousing fun with a good man and a hot woman.
Saturday, March 17, 2012
PMT: PMS: good job I don't work during this week, I'm a monster
Don't ask me why, some women suffer and some don't, but when Aunt Flo is coming to visit I get a rage in my face so clear to see that it is best to stand well clear of this pms monster.So I'll get the good stuff mentioned first so that I can rant about all the idiots/ con men/ time wasters that give genuine gentleman clients a tough time. Most of the month I am a confident, sexual, easy going and playful thing but at a certain time I just get this rage inside and now I'm venting it through my blog.
When I don't have PMS/ PMT:
It's been an interesting week with an overnight at the Marriott with a lovely gentleman who greeted me in the bar with a cosmopolitan waiting and then in the room with flowers and chocolates. I was truly spoilt and made to feel like a princess. I do like overnight, it makes it so much more of an experience and means we can take our time building up to intimacy, more time to tease and tempt and flirt, and more time to recover and do it all over again. I can also have a drink and let my hair down a little more. What goes on behind closed doors stays behind closed doors but by the morning I definitely needed to refuel. Thanks for a great night and I'll see you in a month xx
Me with PMT/ PMS: Be warned, it's not pretty!
So I joined adultwork.com and you can find my details on their website, I love their ratings system and being able to review members is useful. I think I must show up as a newbie and some members must think I have Naive tattooed on my forehead. One member sent an email, sounding lovely and making a booking, and then in the second asked if he could bring in his video camera (for personal use only), hmmmm, let me think about that one, NO!!!!!
Another sent an email asking why was I single and he'd happily be my boyfriend and didn't mind that I do escorting, in fact he encourages it. Er no, I wasn't born yesterday, no freebies, I don't have a boyfriend and I don't want one either, I like my life just the way it is thank you. I'm an escort because I love men and their company and the physical aspect as well, but the key word he seemed to miss is escort. It does make me laugh that they think that you are so green and you'll be so appreciative of their contact that you'll meet them. I prefer my clients, it makes me horny that they like me enough to pay for my company, which in turn makes me horny and makes them very desirable.
Other pet hate: At a meeting when the client doesn't give the payment over within the first initial few minutes. I want to get to know you and the sooner you pay me, the sooner I can focus on you as a person instead of business transaction. For those pretenders out there, no payment upfront means no company and the meeting is cancelled. Genuine clients will always have the payment ready and want to get the business done with so that we can begin to play.
Making a booking but not giving a full name, or hotel booking reference, or the full address so that I can't confirm it or do my security checks. No full name and if I can't confirm you have booked a room at the hotel, or what your address is then I consider it unsafe for me to attend and I will cancel.
Bareback: No in my profile means NO in person as well. Why would I put my health or yours at risk. Please don't ask, it turns me off very quickly and puts my back up. Anyone that asks obviously doesn't respect me or themselves.
Drugs: It's a no go for me, It's not that I sit on a high horse, I just feel very strongly that I like my clients to be in full control of their behaviour whilst they're with me and any drugs at all, or drunkenness is a no go for me. Again, I think it is disrespectful. You shouldn't need drugs with me to heighten the experience, I'd like to say the experience will be pretty mind blowing, so a couple of drinks is fine to loosen you up if you wish but drunk: NO and drugs: NO.
It really irks me when there are lots of true gentlemen out there (yes, my clients I am referring to you x x x x) that are honest, make the booking, pay the fee, cover up, show respect and have a great time where we both enjoy ourselves and leave fulfilled and play it by the rule when there are these schemers who are lower than low and probably get freebies from some unsuspecting girls.
Any way, I'll avoid blogging until my pmt has gone and I'm back to my sweet, caring, sexual self. Can I just say a huge thank you to the genuine clients out there, whether we have had the pleasure of meeting or not. The men who are honest, want to have female company, have a night filled with fun, playful, sexy fun but always with mutual respect, you unfortunately suffer at the workings of the time wasters, the pretenders. It's a real shame that the use of escorts remains so socially unacceptable as I think and I'm sure many others do too, that the good, upfront, honest clients should be able to stand up and take the admiration that myself and other escorts have for them. It is you that makes our job fun, and really enjoyable. May we meet time and time again x x x
When I don't have PMS/ PMT:
It's been an interesting week with an overnight at the Marriott with a lovely gentleman who greeted me in the bar with a cosmopolitan waiting and then in the room with flowers and chocolates. I was truly spoilt and made to feel like a princess. I do like overnight, it makes it so much more of an experience and means we can take our time building up to intimacy, more time to tease and tempt and flirt, and more time to recover and do it all over again. I can also have a drink and let my hair down a little more. What goes on behind closed doors stays behind closed doors but by the morning I definitely needed to refuel. Thanks for a great night and I'll see you in a month xx
Me with PMT/ PMS: Be warned, it's not pretty!
So I joined adultwork.com and you can find my details on their website, I love their ratings system and being able to review members is useful. I think I must show up as a newbie and some members must think I have Naive tattooed on my forehead. One member sent an email, sounding lovely and making a booking, and then in the second asked if he could bring in his video camera (for personal use only), hmmmm, let me think about that one, NO!!!!!
Another sent an email asking why was I single and he'd happily be my boyfriend and didn't mind that I do escorting, in fact he encourages it. Er no, I wasn't born yesterday, no freebies, I don't have a boyfriend and I don't want one either, I like my life just the way it is thank you. I'm an escort because I love men and their company and the physical aspect as well, but the key word he seemed to miss is escort. It does make me laugh that they think that you are so green and you'll be so appreciative of their contact that you'll meet them. I prefer my clients, it makes me horny that they like me enough to pay for my company, which in turn makes me horny and makes them very desirable.
Other pet hate: At a meeting when the client doesn't give the payment over within the first initial few minutes. I want to get to know you and the sooner you pay me, the sooner I can focus on you as a person instead of business transaction. For those pretenders out there, no payment upfront means no company and the meeting is cancelled. Genuine clients will always have the payment ready and want to get the business done with so that we can begin to play.
Making a booking but not giving a full name, or hotel booking reference, or the full address so that I can't confirm it or do my security checks. No full name and if I can't confirm you have booked a room at the hotel, or what your address is then I consider it unsafe for me to attend and I will cancel.
Bareback: No in my profile means NO in person as well. Why would I put my health or yours at risk. Please don't ask, it turns me off very quickly and puts my back up. Anyone that asks obviously doesn't respect me or themselves.
Drugs: It's a no go for me, It's not that I sit on a high horse, I just feel very strongly that I like my clients to be in full control of their behaviour whilst they're with me and any drugs at all, or drunkenness is a no go for me. Again, I think it is disrespectful. You shouldn't need drugs with me to heighten the experience, I'd like to say the experience will be pretty mind blowing, so a couple of drinks is fine to loosen you up if you wish but drunk: NO and drugs: NO.
It really irks me when there are lots of true gentlemen out there (yes, my clients I am referring to you x x x x) that are honest, make the booking, pay the fee, cover up, show respect and have a great time where we both enjoy ourselves and leave fulfilled and play it by the rule when there are these schemers who are lower than low and probably get freebies from some unsuspecting girls.
Any way, I'll avoid blogging until my pmt has gone and I'm back to my sweet, caring, sexual self. Can I just say a huge thank you to the genuine clients out there, whether we have had the pleasure of meeting or not. The men who are honest, want to have female company, have a night filled with fun, playful, sexy fun but always with mutual respect, you unfortunately suffer at the workings of the time wasters, the pretenders. It's a real shame that the use of escorts remains so socially unacceptable as I think and I'm sure many others do too, that the good, upfront, honest clients should be able to stand up and take the admiration that myself and other escorts have for them. It is you that makes our job fun, and really enjoyable. May we meet time and time again x x x
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Reasons why using the services of an escort should be acceptable.
Evening all,
I'm having a nice quiet night to myself and thought that the general public would benefit from hearing about the benefits of seeing an escort such as myself. The reason I am writing this blog is because certain social media sites don't like to have escort business's associated with them even though they are perfectly legal. Why, when they are legal are they shunned and kept in the shadows as if employing the services of an escort is some dark, dirty secret?
So, on to the topic: Reasons why it should not only be seen as a reputable profession, but also that the customers of escorts should be proud and easily justify why they see an escort. (I have not experienced the brothels or street walking trade so I cannot comment, I can only comment on my experience as a high standard escort)
1) Being an escort doesn't mean that you get paid for sex, in fact quite the opposite. A person pays for the time and companionship of the escort and if anything physical or sexual was to occur that would be down to consenting adults and not in return for money.
2) It is true, most escorts will have an active and exciting sex life which often involves their clients (outside of the business transaction) but will ALWAYS ensure they have safe sex. So you are much safer entering into a sexual fricasse with an escort than with a drunken one night stand.
3) Escorts take every precaution not to get pregnant, your lady that you have an affair with might be very different and be looking for a reason to get you to leave your wife. We don't want you to leave your wife.
4) A one night stand, or a lady you have an affair is likely to tell her friends about you and her experience, there is much more chance of gossip getting back if you don't use an escort. Escorts are professional at being discreet and keep everything in confidence so there is no chance of your fun times getting back to anyone.
5) An escort, even though they practice safe sex 100% of the time will still undertake regular tests at the clinic to make sure they stay free of any std's. This way you are as close to getting risk free fun with an escort. Ask yourself when the last time your affair or a one night stand was tested and got a clear bill of health? Me, every month.
6) A one night stand, or your affair might want to get in contact with you, want more of your time and attention when you have other priorities such as work, wife and family which means you just don't have time for complications. Escorts are uncomplicated fun, we won't contact you but will be there when you want us, we don't want any of your time tthat you don't want to give us and we will take as much or as little attention as you want to give.
7) Escorts are there to make sure you have a good time, and they don't have their own agenda. One night stands and affairs definately have their own agenda and their own idea of what your relationship is about and where it is leading.
8) Why spend the night looking for a lady who might make good company and then end up by yourself in your hotel room when you can book an appointment and have a good looking, sexy, lady who looks fabulous on your arm out and about, but even better on her back in your hotel room.
9) A quality escort will be able to hold conversations, will make all your friends jealous when she walks in a room with you, and never let on that her company has been paid for. She will be able to smile and win everyone over so they all want to know "where you found her".
10) A quality escort is non-judgemental and you can reveal you deepest darkest desires and we won't think you are a pervert. If we are comfortable with your desires we might choose to work with them, if your desires don't match with ours, it doesn't mean you are a pervert but just that we are not well suited and we might be able to recommend someone who would be better at meeting your needs. You nevr know, you might be able to teach us a thing or two.
11) We love to have a drink, a nice meal, or attend functions with you, escorts do this job because they enjoy male company. We like meeting new people, we are professional at putting people at ease and making you feel comfortable. We believe that sex is not a chore and should be enjoyed openly. We are proud of our bodies and won't judge your body or your performance. We have enough experience to know that good times is more than just looks and ability, it is the person we want. We enjoy giving you pleasure and making you happy, so the happier you are the better we feel.
So finally, I hope from reading this either from a womans or a clients perspective you will be more accepting of a person who uses an escort, and also of an escort and appreciate that our job is not just about sex, but lots lots more. In terms of a man being unfaithful we are the guarantee of no STD's, no unexpected child maintenance letters, no neighbourly gossip, just a good time enjoyed by all.
I'm having a nice quiet night to myself and thought that the general public would benefit from hearing about the benefits of seeing an escort such as myself. The reason I am writing this blog is because certain social media sites don't like to have escort business's associated with them even though they are perfectly legal. Why, when they are legal are they shunned and kept in the shadows as if employing the services of an escort is some dark, dirty secret?
So, on to the topic: Reasons why it should not only be seen as a reputable profession, but also that the customers of escorts should be proud and easily justify why they see an escort. (I have not experienced the brothels or street walking trade so I cannot comment, I can only comment on my experience as a high standard escort)
1) Being an escort doesn't mean that you get paid for sex, in fact quite the opposite. A person pays for the time and companionship of the escort and if anything physical or sexual was to occur that would be down to consenting adults and not in return for money.
2) It is true, most escorts will have an active and exciting sex life which often involves their clients (outside of the business transaction) but will ALWAYS ensure they have safe sex. So you are much safer entering into a sexual fricasse with an escort than with a drunken one night stand.
3) Escorts take every precaution not to get pregnant, your lady that you have an affair with might be very different and be looking for a reason to get you to leave your wife. We don't want you to leave your wife.
4) A one night stand, or a lady you have an affair is likely to tell her friends about you and her experience, there is much more chance of gossip getting back if you don't use an escort. Escorts are professional at being discreet and keep everything in confidence so there is no chance of your fun times getting back to anyone.
5) An escort, even though they practice safe sex 100% of the time will still undertake regular tests at the clinic to make sure they stay free of any std's. This way you are as close to getting risk free fun with an escort. Ask yourself when the last time your affair or a one night stand was tested and got a clear bill of health? Me, every month.
6) A one night stand, or your affair might want to get in contact with you, want more of your time and attention when you have other priorities such as work, wife and family which means you just don't have time for complications. Escorts are uncomplicated fun, we won't contact you but will be there when you want us, we don't want any of your time tthat you don't want to give us and we will take as much or as little attention as you want to give.
7) Escorts are there to make sure you have a good time, and they don't have their own agenda. One night stands and affairs definately have their own agenda and their own idea of what your relationship is about and where it is leading.
8) Why spend the night looking for a lady who might make good company and then end up by yourself in your hotel room when you can book an appointment and have a good looking, sexy, lady who looks fabulous on your arm out and about, but even better on her back in your hotel room.
9) A quality escort will be able to hold conversations, will make all your friends jealous when she walks in a room with you, and never let on that her company has been paid for. She will be able to smile and win everyone over so they all want to know "where you found her".
10) A quality escort is non-judgemental and you can reveal you deepest darkest desires and we won't think you are a pervert. If we are comfortable with your desires we might choose to work with them, if your desires don't match with ours, it doesn't mean you are a pervert but just that we are not well suited and we might be able to recommend someone who would be better at meeting your needs. You nevr know, you might be able to teach us a thing or two.
11) We love to have a drink, a nice meal, or attend functions with you, escorts do this job because they enjoy male company. We like meeting new people, we are professional at putting people at ease and making you feel comfortable. We believe that sex is not a chore and should be enjoyed openly. We are proud of our bodies and won't judge your body or your performance. We have enough experience to know that good times is more than just looks and ability, it is the person we want. We enjoy giving you pleasure and making you happy, so the happier you are the better we feel.
So finally, I hope from reading this either from a womans or a clients perspective you will be more accepting of a person who uses an escort, and also of an escort and appreciate that our job is not just about sex, but lots lots more. In terms of a man being unfaithful we are the guarantee of no STD's, no unexpected child maintenance letters, no neighbourly gossip, just a good time enjoyed by all.
Monday, March 12, 2012
Mature men and why I want them
Ok, so first things first, what makes men mature? You might say absolutely nothing and that they all suffer from the peter pan complex but I would disagree. When I say mature; I am talking about the man that has stopped laughing at his own farts, and no longer tries to burp the alphabet, but not quite at zimmer frame and pace maker stage.
As long as the man in question is fit and healthy and knows how to treat a woman then I don't have an issue.
So, why am I talking about mature men? Well, I was watching "Kidnap and Ransom" and I found I have a real thing for Trevor Eve. Add him to my list beside Martin Shaw, Robbie Coltrane (in Cracker not as Hagrid lol) and Sean Connery and I think that is quite an eclectic mix of maturity that I find stimulating.
I obviously can't name names of mature men that I have met, but needless to say I find them very stimulating for my mind and body. I think their eyes tell stories, as do the lines on their faces, they no longer worry about the unimportant stuff like: hair on a mans body, or whether they carry a little too much condition on their torso; they have gone beyond who has the biggest guns, or pistol for that matter and have learned to deal with what they have got and make the best use of it, whether that is fat, thin, hairy, bald, smooth, rough, big or little.
I might just add that all the mature men on my list also seem to bring something else to the table (whether it is them in real life or the fictional characters they play) and that is for them to gain my respect. Robbie Coltrane in Cracker, wow, that guy was amazing at his job as forensic psychologist and it desn't matter that he was a little large, or rude, or messed up a lot. Sean Connery as most characters, to be honest, less about respect and more just wanting him to talk dirty to me. Sean, if you ever read this can you send me a recording of filthy talk please and make my year? A few lines of "suck my cock", "fuck me harder" "sit on it and ride" and anything else that springs into your mind will do. Martin Shaw, OMG: Judge John Deed, doesn't get much more respectful than that, a man who knows what he wants and gets it, Martin Shaw, you do it for me. Finally Trevor Eve, whether in Waking the Dead, or Kidnap and Ransom you are a man that I would love to have a drink with and you could wrap me around your little finger.
So, in conclusion, it is not maturity as such that makes a man attractive and me very horny, but more that they are better at me at something, ideally expert level, someone that can teach me something, that brings something to the table and has a real passion in their life. I don't care whether it is being a player and having a talent in construction, or art, or kayaking, or teaching, or cooking, or writing, or the stockmarket, or property, or rugby, fitness, or IT, or outdoor pursuits, or exploring, or selling, or NLP or negotiation, or politics, or accountancy or ... fill in as you please....
So reading this blog what have we learned?
Taylor, (me), is not attracted to maturity as such, she is attracted to men who deserve respect. For example I have lusted after my biology teacher (not only was he not particularly attractive but boy was he good at his job and I might add he was one that got away), I've always wanted a teacher so at college I had my PE Teacher (bit of a let down and I still fantasise that my biology teacher would have been amazing), I've had my fair share of professional sportsmen, who don't let the side down but no comments there, the policeman that pulled me over for speeding, my bosses that impressed me at work throughout my career, the top dog boy at my school, and so on. You can assume from this that I am an Alpha female (If I meet someone who impresses me and deserves my respect, I find that in itself attractive and a real turn on, I find out what the man is good at, it makes me want them and I have to have them and genrally I make it my mission to get what I want).
So now we know I'm an alpha female, I like to be in control, but I also like to meet my match and someone that can to an extent control me. Remind me in my next blog to write about the softer side of me, the one that makes an appearance when I have a nervous client, or a first timer, or an unconfident man who needs their masculinity building back up. (next time). Until then, sleep tight and man or woman, complete your pelvic floor exercises, it works wonders for your sex life and power of orgasms.
Taylor x x
As long as the man in question is fit and healthy and knows how to treat a woman then I don't have an issue.
So, why am I talking about mature men? Well, I was watching "Kidnap and Ransom" and I found I have a real thing for Trevor Eve. Add him to my list beside Martin Shaw, Robbie Coltrane (in Cracker not as Hagrid lol) and Sean Connery and I think that is quite an eclectic mix of maturity that I find stimulating.
I obviously can't name names of mature men that I have met, but needless to say I find them very stimulating for my mind and body. I think their eyes tell stories, as do the lines on their faces, they no longer worry about the unimportant stuff like: hair on a mans body, or whether they carry a little too much condition on their torso; they have gone beyond who has the biggest guns, or pistol for that matter and have learned to deal with what they have got and make the best use of it, whether that is fat, thin, hairy, bald, smooth, rough, big or little.
I might just add that all the mature men on my list also seem to bring something else to the table (whether it is them in real life or the fictional characters they play) and that is for them to gain my respect. Robbie Coltrane in Cracker, wow, that guy was amazing at his job as forensic psychologist and it desn't matter that he was a little large, or rude, or messed up a lot. Sean Connery as most characters, to be honest, less about respect and more just wanting him to talk dirty to me. Sean, if you ever read this can you send me a recording of filthy talk please and make my year? A few lines of "suck my cock", "fuck me harder" "sit on it and ride" and anything else that springs into your mind will do. Martin Shaw, OMG: Judge John Deed, doesn't get much more respectful than that, a man who knows what he wants and gets it, Martin Shaw, you do it for me. Finally Trevor Eve, whether in Waking the Dead, or Kidnap and Ransom you are a man that I would love to have a drink with and you could wrap me around your little finger.
So, in conclusion, it is not maturity as such that makes a man attractive and me very horny, but more that they are better at me at something, ideally expert level, someone that can teach me something, that brings something to the table and has a real passion in their life. I don't care whether it is being a player and having a talent in construction, or art, or kayaking, or teaching, or cooking, or writing, or the stockmarket, or property, or rugby, fitness, or IT, or outdoor pursuits, or exploring, or selling, or NLP or negotiation, or politics, or accountancy or ... fill in as you please....
So reading this blog what have we learned?
Taylor, (me), is not attracted to maturity as such, she is attracted to men who deserve respect. For example I have lusted after my biology teacher (not only was he not particularly attractive but boy was he good at his job and I might add he was one that got away), I've always wanted a teacher so at college I had my PE Teacher (bit of a let down and I still fantasise that my biology teacher would have been amazing), I've had my fair share of professional sportsmen, who don't let the side down but no comments there, the policeman that pulled me over for speeding, my bosses that impressed me at work throughout my career, the top dog boy at my school, and so on. You can assume from this that I am an Alpha female (If I meet someone who impresses me and deserves my respect, I find that in itself attractive and a real turn on, I find out what the man is good at, it makes me want them and I have to have them and genrally I make it my mission to get what I want).
So now we know I'm an alpha female, I like to be in control, but I also like to meet my match and someone that can to an extent control me. Remind me in my next blog to write about the softer side of me, the one that makes an appearance when I have a nervous client, or a first timer, or an unconfident man who needs their masculinity building back up. (next time). Until then, sleep tight and man or woman, complete your pelvic floor exercises, it works wonders for your sex life and power of orgasms.
Taylor x x
Saturday, March 10, 2012
oooohh, great night with MR delicious and potential new men to please
Good afternoon blog readers. I'll try not to bore you to tears and won't take too long but first: PHOTO's are here, well some of them at least. Let me know what you think, hopefully they are ok; although without being able to see my eyes, which I think are an escorts best feature (and definitely mine) it's a bit difficult to get photo's that try to represent me, and the experience I offer.
So anyway, what a great day yesterday, as I sit here with a lovely cup of coffee, the sun is shining, I ate my lunch outside in the sun, and spring is here so all is well with the world. On top of that I had a spine tingling night last night thanks to Mr Delicious who I have been fortunate enough to meet on several occassions and whom I enjoy the company of every time as he makes me laugh and blush, and giggle and much more during our time together just by being himself.
I had a day of meetings in London yesterday (for my day job) which were very interesting and met with several clients and I'll hopefully be able to add value to their business. I also heard from a potential (for my escort job) client who I unfortunately couldn't meet with due to prior commitments, but he sounded like he would be interesting, we'd have plenty to talk about and hopefully I will see him in the future.
Bit of a rant coming: I'd just like to point out that calling a high level escort at 1am in the morning is not a great idea, the phone won't be answered and the number gets blocked especially when it is followed up by a text that says "babe, what r ur best services?". Frankly, that person will never get to find out. Unless I have an understanding with a client I have previously met then I need at least 24hrs notice and for weekends it is as rare a a hens tooth that I am available on the day and a weeks notice is required unless you are extremely lucky. I think this man was looking for a quick fumble and that is not me.
I like to fully appreciate my men and experience them, I'm not a walk in, walk out girl and if that is what you're looking for then please don't contact me. I'm a woman who loves to have lots of fun with my clients and to get the most out of it will spend time with them, exploring them and not just a 30 minute mindless exercise.
The whole point of having a meeting with an escort, mistress, courtesan like me is that I have the time to spend with you that others don't. I want to lavish attention on you and actually want to hear what you have to say and listen to what you want. I want to be involved in our fun, as I do my job because I enjoy it and I enjoy my clients and judging by my call back rate my clients are extremely happy too.
So, if you are a man with manners, who wants to experience a beautiful woman that wants to fully experience you then please call me.
Have a good Saturday,
Taylor x x
So anyway, what a great day yesterday, as I sit here with a lovely cup of coffee, the sun is shining, I ate my lunch outside in the sun, and spring is here so all is well with the world. On top of that I had a spine tingling night last night thanks to Mr Delicious who I have been fortunate enough to meet on several occassions and whom I enjoy the company of every time as he makes me laugh and blush, and giggle and much more during our time together just by being himself.
I had a day of meetings in London yesterday (for my day job) which were very interesting and met with several clients and I'll hopefully be able to add value to their business. I also heard from a potential (for my escort job) client who I unfortunately couldn't meet with due to prior commitments, but he sounded like he would be interesting, we'd have plenty to talk about and hopefully I will see him in the future.
Bit of a rant coming: I'd just like to point out that calling a high level escort at 1am in the morning is not a great idea, the phone won't be answered and the number gets blocked especially when it is followed up by a text that says "babe, what r ur best services?". Frankly, that person will never get to find out. Unless I have an understanding with a client I have previously met then I need at least 24hrs notice and for weekends it is as rare a a hens tooth that I am available on the day and a weeks notice is required unless you are extremely lucky. I think this man was looking for a quick fumble and that is not me.
I like to fully appreciate my men and experience them, I'm not a walk in, walk out girl and if that is what you're looking for then please don't contact me. I'm a woman who loves to have lots of fun with my clients and to get the most out of it will spend time with them, exploring them and not just a 30 minute mindless exercise.
The whole point of having a meeting with an escort, mistress, courtesan like me is that I have the time to spend with you that others don't. I want to lavish attention on you and actually want to hear what you have to say and listen to what you want. I want to be involved in our fun, as I do my job because I enjoy it and I enjoy my clients and judging by my call back rate my clients are extremely happy too.
So, if you are a man with manners, who wants to experience a beautiful woman that wants to fully experience you then please call me.
Have a good Saturday,
Taylor x x
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
reasons why you should be HAPPY your man sees an escort
Good evening blog readers, you'll be able to tell that I don't have time to draft my blogs, between working full time and my work as a courtesan time is limited, so they are pretty rambling and for my poor English, grammar and punctuation I apologise.
Just a quick note to say thank you to my lovely gentleman friend for a wonderful evening on Saturday. The dinner was beautiful and the champagne divine. Just enough to get my taste buds tingling and my mind wandering to any after dinner pursuits that may occur. My companion was a true gentleman and had the most intriguing, deep brown eyes that I couldn't help but stare into. The Royal Cresent Hotel in Bath was delightful and the bedrooms very spacious. I don't divulge details but I am very much looking forward to our second meeting.
Any how, the reason for my blog is this: Some reasons why it is reasonable for a person to take advantage of the services provided by a courtesan or escort?
1) Wives and life/ long term partners should be happy (yes that's right HAPPY) that their man is using an escort, because lets be honest if your man has needs that needs fufilling and you can't meet them, or you don't want to meet them, then you better recognise they will get met some how. The options are these: a mistress who is highly demanding of your mans attentions, his wallet and time, who pulls out the "love you" card, who ideally wants him forever and to take him away from you, ER no, that's not great.
A quick wham bham from a street corner: not the most civilised or safest option, you don't know who is behind the person standing on the street and their reasons for doing it and I certainly wouldn't like any partner of mine to potentially be having sex with someone who is there because they either know no better, are forced into it, are underage, or do it to provide money for a drugs habit.
Or they have one night stands, which could turn into an affair, aren't necessarily safe, could lead to unexpected pregnancies, other people finding out, indiscretions and embarrassment all round. Second to last option, they are faithful, and miserable because they have a thirst that cannot be quenched, the relationship suffers because they resent you for not wanting them, and you resent them for putting pressure on you.
SO: Final option, a woman like me. I will look after your man, have safe and consenting fun, be a person where he can release his frustrations without being worried it will ever get out, no one will ever know, much more discreet, and I won't ever try to take him off you. If anything I will always try to get him to understand his partners perspective and hopefully be more understanding of issues in the relationship.
2) Peoples sex drives vary massively, mine is very very very high, thus why I love my job, but sometime in a partnership for whatever reason they can be hugely unequal. For whatever reason the love is still there for both of you but for one, the desire for sex may have dropped leaving the other in sexless limbo. I don't have an issue with people who don't want sex but they should understand that to people with a sex drive that sex is as necessary as food, warmth and shelter. In fact, time for sex and intimacy should come into maslows hierachy of needs. If you don't cook at home you'd buy takeaway? Well, I'm pretty much the intimate version of takeaway. Wouldn't you prefer your man to be eating a takeaway rather than going round to another womans house to have a home cooked meal?
3) People have confidence issues that come from not being desired by their partner, or at least not feeling desired by their partner. Everyone likes to feel wanted and some more so than others, especially in an intimate way. I personally, love to feel wanted and if I don't have enough intimate time with people then my confidence drops. So I know that other people experience this too, everytime you shun your man and say not tonight honey I'm too tired, or I've got a head ache, or put on your tartan wool pj's, then trust me he feels hurt and each time you do this it knocks him that little bit more. I make sure your partner continues to feel manly, confident, I give an outlet to all that testosterone, I make sure he knows he is talented, and holds his head up proudly knowing that not only is he a loved man (by you), but he still has the ability to make a lady smile.
You never know, I may teach him a trick or two which could be very beneficial for you ; )
4) I'm not a threat to women with long term boyfriends and husbands, they love you very much and I have no intention of taking them off you, but if your partner needs a bit of time for themselves, someone who understands their needs and sexual desires without judging them then you should look at it as if your man was seeing a therapist or councellor. By seeing me occcassionally it makes your relationship better, he won't be pestering you for night time, or day time activities, so it leaves you free to have it when you want it as opposed to feel pressured. You should know he will always come back to you, it is you he loves, you who he wants to be with forever and just me that satisfies a small part of him. it leaves you free to spend time with each other without the frustrations in the background.
5) I am a form of entertainment to your man that takes the pressure off you, and I enjoy my job. I enjoy making men feel good about themselves and I love sex and intimacy if it comes into it. I care about my clients and I am 100% discreet, I 'm not looking for a sugar daddy, I only want to do my job and get paid for it and make my clients lives better for seeing me than not.
I provide a service which has been around for so many years, the reason for that is that it is essential. So if you ever find out your man has used an escort, don't get angry at him, be relieved. He could be in love with another woman and he isn't, he just needs some time where someone can be focussed purely on him.
My final point is that ladies: if your man is not satisfying you and you love him dearly but need something more, there is nothing wrong with you getting your needs fufilled by an escort either. There are sadly many men out there with a small sex drive and partners who are left in a sexual drought. Ladies, you don't have to hang up your KY just yet or your sexy undies. Escorts love to please their clients so get yourself out there and have some safe, consentual fun which won't come back and bite you.
Just a quick note to say thank you to my lovely gentleman friend for a wonderful evening on Saturday. The dinner was beautiful and the champagne divine. Just enough to get my taste buds tingling and my mind wandering to any after dinner pursuits that may occur. My companion was a true gentleman and had the most intriguing, deep brown eyes that I couldn't help but stare into. The Royal Cresent Hotel in Bath was delightful and the bedrooms very spacious. I don't divulge details but I am very much looking forward to our second meeting.
Any how, the reason for my blog is this: Some reasons why it is reasonable for a person to take advantage of the services provided by a courtesan or escort?
1) Wives and life/ long term partners should be happy (yes that's right HAPPY) that their man is using an escort, because lets be honest if your man has needs that needs fufilling and you can't meet them, or you don't want to meet them, then you better recognise they will get met some how. The options are these: a mistress who is highly demanding of your mans attentions, his wallet and time, who pulls out the "love you" card, who ideally wants him forever and to take him away from you, ER no, that's not great.
A quick wham bham from a street corner: not the most civilised or safest option, you don't know who is behind the person standing on the street and their reasons for doing it and I certainly wouldn't like any partner of mine to potentially be having sex with someone who is there because they either know no better, are forced into it, are underage, or do it to provide money for a drugs habit.
Or they have one night stands, which could turn into an affair, aren't necessarily safe, could lead to unexpected pregnancies, other people finding out, indiscretions and embarrassment all round. Second to last option, they are faithful, and miserable because they have a thirst that cannot be quenched, the relationship suffers because they resent you for not wanting them, and you resent them for putting pressure on you.
SO: Final option, a woman like me. I will look after your man, have safe and consenting fun, be a person where he can release his frustrations without being worried it will ever get out, no one will ever know, much more discreet, and I won't ever try to take him off you. If anything I will always try to get him to understand his partners perspective and hopefully be more understanding of issues in the relationship.
2) Peoples sex drives vary massively, mine is very very very high, thus why I love my job, but sometime in a partnership for whatever reason they can be hugely unequal. For whatever reason the love is still there for both of you but for one, the desire for sex may have dropped leaving the other in sexless limbo. I don't have an issue with people who don't want sex but they should understand that to people with a sex drive that sex is as necessary as food, warmth and shelter. In fact, time for sex and intimacy should come into maslows hierachy of needs. If you don't cook at home you'd buy takeaway? Well, I'm pretty much the intimate version of takeaway. Wouldn't you prefer your man to be eating a takeaway rather than going round to another womans house to have a home cooked meal?
3) People have confidence issues that come from not being desired by their partner, or at least not feeling desired by their partner. Everyone likes to feel wanted and some more so than others, especially in an intimate way. I personally, love to feel wanted and if I don't have enough intimate time with people then my confidence drops. So I know that other people experience this too, everytime you shun your man and say not tonight honey I'm too tired, or I've got a head ache, or put on your tartan wool pj's, then trust me he feels hurt and each time you do this it knocks him that little bit more. I make sure your partner continues to feel manly, confident, I give an outlet to all that testosterone, I make sure he knows he is talented, and holds his head up proudly knowing that not only is he a loved man (by you), but he still has the ability to make a lady smile.
You never know, I may teach him a trick or two which could be very beneficial for you ; )
4) I'm not a threat to women with long term boyfriends and husbands, they love you very much and I have no intention of taking them off you, but if your partner needs a bit of time for themselves, someone who understands their needs and sexual desires without judging them then you should look at it as if your man was seeing a therapist or councellor. By seeing me occcassionally it makes your relationship better, he won't be pestering you for night time, or day time activities, so it leaves you free to have it when you want it as opposed to feel pressured. You should know he will always come back to you, it is you he loves, you who he wants to be with forever and just me that satisfies a small part of him. it leaves you free to spend time with each other without the frustrations in the background.
5) I am a form of entertainment to your man that takes the pressure off you, and I enjoy my job. I enjoy making men feel good about themselves and I love sex and intimacy if it comes into it. I care about my clients and I am 100% discreet, I 'm not looking for a sugar daddy, I only want to do my job and get paid for it and make my clients lives better for seeing me than not.
I provide a service which has been around for so many years, the reason for that is that it is essential. So if you ever find out your man has used an escort, don't get angry at him, be relieved. He could be in love with another woman and he isn't, he just needs some time where someone can be focussed purely on him.
My final point is that ladies: if your man is not satisfying you and you love him dearly but need something more, there is nothing wrong with you getting your needs fufilled by an escort either. There are sadly many men out there with a small sex drive and partners who are left in a sexual drought. Ladies, you don't have to hang up your KY just yet or your sexy undies. Escorts love to please their clients so get yourself out there and have some safe, consentual fun which won't come back and bite you.
Friday, March 2, 2012
Weekend pleasure
What a nice relaxing night, I'll write this blog, open up a nice bottle of Oyster Bay and sink into a hot bubble bath before heading off to bed for an early night. I need my beauty sleep for a very special meeting tomorrow. Although all my meetings are special, this is the first time I will be meeting with this client so I'm always a mixture of nervous and excited and I want to make sure I am in peak condition for my client and impress him tomorrow.
I like to make an effort for my clients and I only ever book one at the weekends. I'm happy to meet requests and will tailor myself as close as I can to my clients desires. This gentleman has requested black lacy underwear and a pair of stockings, not a problem and easily fufilled. I've got my outfit out already and the the bra is excellent as you can just see my nipples through the lace. I'll be wearing a tight yet elegant little black dress with a pair of killer stilhettos which hopefully he will spend time thinking about what is underneath and how long it will take him to remove each piece of clothing. As it is our first meeting I will be gentle with him and put him at ease so that we can have a really good night together and get the most out of each others company. I have a feeling it may be me leading the way as I don't think he has used escorts before so I will really enjoy popping his escort cherry and making him a very happy man.
We're meeting at the beautiful Royal Crescent Hotel in Bath, Somerset for dinner and a few drinks where hopefully I can put his nerves to bed, relax him and do the ground work before getting to spend some quality private time in the beautiful bedroom where there is plenty of room to get to know each other intimately.
To all of you out there possibly reading this I wish you a fantastic weekend, remember that you owe it to yourself to put a smile on your face and that sex is the most natural of all human instincts and to deny yourself sex is to deny human nature.
I like to make an effort for my clients and I only ever book one at the weekends. I'm happy to meet requests and will tailor myself as close as I can to my clients desires. This gentleman has requested black lacy underwear and a pair of stockings, not a problem and easily fufilled. I've got my outfit out already and the the bra is excellent as you can just see my nipples through the lace. I'll be wearing a tight yet elegant little black dress with a pair of killer stilhettos which hopefully he will spend time thinking about what is underneath and how long it will take him to remove each piece of clothing. As it is our first meeting I will be gentle with him and put him at ease so that we can have a really good night together and get the most out of each others company. I have a feeling it may be me leading the way as I don't think he has used escorts before so I will really enjoy popping his escort cherry and making him a very happy man.
We're meeting at the beautiful Royal Crescent Hotel in Bath, Somerset for dinner and a few drinks where hopefully I can put his nerves to bed, relax him and do the ground work before getting to spend some quality private time in the beautiful bedroom where there is plenty of room to get to know each other intimately.
To all of you out there possibly reading this I wish you a fantastic weekend, remember that you owe it to yourself to put a smile on your face and that sex is the most natural of all human instincts and to deny yourself sex is to deny human nature.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
sexy photo shoot 2
OK, so just finished having my escort website photos done by a lovely photographer in a beautiful hotel near Malmesbury in Wiltshire. Beautiful setting, and beacuse many pictures were taken with me by the large window many ramblers got an eyeful of a scantily clad lady.
Started the photo shoot a bit awkwardly, the photographer seemed more uncomfortable than me, even though it was me standing there in not very much. He was concerned about getting the setting right and making sure the furniture was right. I made a joke that if the people looking at the photo's noticed the background then he hadn't done his job. As it went on it got better and he even managed to crack a few jokes towards the end, including that I was paying for him to see me naked and to stick up my bum, and part my lips a little more, when normally it was the other way around.
To be fair, I found the photographer really quite attractive and at one point when we were doing bed shots I found him really quite close to my head, this did give me some ideas but as he seemed so professional and intent on taking photos and oblivious to the fact that my mouth was close enough for my tongue to play with his balls I kept my mouth shut and just used my imagination instead.
I like the innocent men, the ones that are a bit nervous of an escort and might want me to lead the way, it is endearing and by the time they leave my company they should feel totally at ease with themselves and brimming with confidence. Unfortunately Mr Photographer wasn't a paying client otherwise I would have been delighted to have used the hotel room for much more pleasureable past times than photography. So Mr Photographer, if you're ever at a lose end and would like a discreet female to play with give me a call, I'd be delighted to get to know you intimately. I'll soon get you loosened up and as unprofessional as possible. I've never known anyone to study the furniture in the room whilst I'm there in my underwear, you'll have your hands full of much more important tasks than where to place a lamp!
Started with white innocent underwear, followed by a black and red set, a pair of black lacy french knickers, a black lacy see-through dress, and nothing apart from a feather boa and a smile. Only a few days to see the results.
Started the photo shoot a bit awkwardly, the photographer seemed more uncomfortable than me, even though it was me standing there in not very much. He was concerned about getting the setting right and making sure the furniture was right. I made a joke that if the people looking at the photo's noticed the background then he hadn't done his job. As it went on it got better and he even managed to crack a few jokes towards the end, including that I was paying for him to see me naked and to stick up my bum, and part my lips a little more, when normally it was the other way around.
To be fair, I found the photographer really quite attractive and at one point when we were doing bed shots I found him really quite close to my head, this did give me some ideas but as he seemed so professional and intent on taking photos and oblivious to the fact that my mouth was close enough for my tongue to play with his balls I kept my mouth shut and just used my imagination instead.
I like the innocent men, the ones that are a bit nervous of an escort and might want me to lead the way, it is endearing and by the time they leave my company they should feel totally at ease with themselves and brimming with confidence. Unfortunately Mr Photographer wasn't a paying client otherwise I would have been delighted to have used the hotel room for much more pleasureable past times than photography. So Mr Photographer, if you're ever at a lose end and would like a discreet female to play with give me a call, I'd be delighted to get to know you intimately. I'll soon get you loosened up and as unprofessional as possible. I've never known anyone to study the furniture in the room whilst I'm there in my underwear, you'll have your hands full of much more important tasks than where to place a lamp!
Started with white innocent underwear, followed by a black and red set, a pair of black lacy french knickers, a black lacy see-through dress, and nothing apart from a feather boa and a smile. Only a few days to see the results.
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Photo Shoot
This is for my photographer who suggested I blog, so here it is, no doubt read by no one, but I quite like that idea, that I'm just writing to cyber space. I suppose I should tell you what you'll find on my blog, well, to be honest I'm not quite sure.
I'll no doubt tell you about my fun times and my not so fun times, totally confidentially of course, and what I've been up to in my day to day life.
Today was the day when I got my photos done for my escort website. Not something I was looking forward to. Yes I look pretty good naked, I've got a great breasts and an arse that was made for groping but standing infront of a camera posing? Hmmm not my thing. Standing infront of a client and making them feel special, that's fun, that's easy, I like to make a man feel wanted and I can do that anyway you like.
Dilemma 1) No face: An experience with me is all about the connection. In the photo's obviously you won't get to see my face, yet when we meet my eyes and my face are what will make you feel instantly at ease, my sly smile that lets you know that perhaps my mind is thinking about doing naughty things with you, that little grin as I run my tongue across my lips, none of that can be portrayed by a photo so I guess I'm a little worried that my photo's won't do the job I need them to because I like to think I'm much better in reality, could be wrong but you can decide that.
Dilemma 2) Pitching it right, not tits and arse, but at the same time I want you to want me
I'm not looking for clients who just want to get their leg over, I want clients who want to have an experience and leave my company feeling so much better about themselves than before they met with me. I want to connect with my clients, to experience them, to find out how to push your buttons and how you want them pushed.
It is important for me that my photos are not just tits and arse, they should make you want to get to know me more. Imagine what it would be like to share a drink at a bar whilst we look at each other wondering when would be polite to take each other upstairs, you trying to work out what is under my tight dress, how long it would take you to get it off, what colour underwear I'm wearing. Can this be achieved in a photo? I'm not creative in the slightest, and I'm certainly not photogenic but....
My photographer was excellent and I trust him to come up with the shots that you will hopefully like enough to contact me and see if I can make you feel as special as you deserve. Anyhow, keep an eye out and let me know your thoughts, off to bed now for some much needed rest.
I'll no doubt tell you about my fun times and my not so fun times, totally confidentially of course, and what I've been up to in my day to day life.
Today was the day when I got my photos done for my escort website. Not something I was looking forward to. Yes I look pretty good naked, I've got a great breasts and an arse that was made for groping but standing infront of a camera posing? Hmmm not my thing. Standing infront of a client and making them feel special, that's fun, that's easy, I like to make a man feel wanted and I can do that anyway you like.
Dilemma 1) No face: An experience with me is all about the connection. In the photo's obviously you won't get to see my face, yet when we meet my eyes and my face are what will make you feel instantly at ease, my sly smile that lets you know that perhaps my mind is thinking about doing naughty things with you, that little grin as I run my tongue across my lips, none of that can be portrayed by a photo so I guess I'm a little worried that my photo's won't do the job I need them to because I like to think I'm much better in reality, could be wrong but you can decide that.
Dilemma 2) Pitching it right, not tits and arse, but at the same time I want you to want me
I'm not looking for clients who just want to get their leg over, I want clients who want to have an experience and leave my company feeling so much better about themselves than before they met with me. I want to connect with my clients, to experience them, to find out how to push your buttons and how you want them pushed.
It is important for me that my photos are not just tits and arse, they should make you want to get to know me more. Imagine what it would be like to share a drink at a bar whilst we look at each other wondering when would be polite to take each other upstairs, you trying to work out what is under my tight dress, how long it would take you to get it off, what colour underwear I'm wearing. Can this be achieved in a photo? I'm not creative in the slightest, and I'm certainly not photogenic but....
My photographer was excellent and I trust him to come up with the shots that you will hopefully like enough to contact me and see if I can make you feel as special as you deserve. Anyhow, keep an eye out and let me know your thoughts, off to bed now for some much needed rest.
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